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I've got a wicked sunburn.

Bright red, pain, peeling and the whole
works.

But this sun burn is going to help YOU
meet more women TODAY - While saying
MUCH less, and doing almost NO real
work.

Because in this email, I'm going to
reveal one book that's influenced
my own life (and the lives of MILLIONS
of others)... And... I'm going to
share with you a step-by-step
formula for making her MORE
attracted to you... Aching to
come home with you... And
CONVINCED you're the most
interesting person she's
ever met.

All without much work.

And sometimes without saying a
WORD.

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edgewise?

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>>

It was all inspired by THIS question,
from a reader just like you.

So check it out:

***QUESTION FROM A READER***
"First of all, thanks for your emails.
They're killer and I feel a lot more
confident after reading them.

Thing is I'm a quiet guy by nature.
I tend to prefer to be alone or by
myself instead of around other people.
I sometimes find excuses not to go to
parties because I feel like everyone
else has their social circle and I
don't want to intrude into their
"worlds", even if I knew how.

So I wanted to know, is there a way
I can break into these groups without
immediately coming across like an
outsider?

And do you know a way to talk to girls
without doing a lot of the talking?
The clubs my friends like to go to
are LOUD and women have a tough
time hearing me.

Any advice would rock, and thanks
again for everything.

- Matt K., New York City"

>>> Hey Matt,

Yeah, New York City clubs are ridiculous.

Living her the past couple of years has
really made me miss - and appreciate -
The good old country quiet.

(I grew up in Connecticut, so I haven't
COMPLETELY forgot what a tree looks like)

So you're question is a great one,
and something I faced a LOT, when
I started going to bars and clubs
alone.

In fact, I used to sit in the corner,
holding my drink, thinking of a way
to talk to people...

... Even taking a few steps in the
right direction...

... And then see them 'close off' their
group with their bodies.

So I'd walk back to where I was before,
and feel more awkward than ever.

(If this has happened to you - even once -
I don't need to tell you how ridiculous
I felt)

But early on, when I was starting to learn
how to meet women, I stumbled across a
national best-selling book that influenced
almost every area of my life.

In fact, it's the same book I found buried
in my parents house when I visited them
last week, in Florida.

(Yeah, not the best time of year,
I know)

It's a book written by the famous Dale
Carnegie titled "How To Win Friends
And Influence People"

Now, the name is very sketchy and
even turned me off at first.

In fact, I refused to read it for a
few years until I heard 'old time'
pick-up artists like Mystery and
Neil Strauss recommend it.

(We used to chat pretty frequently)

So I opened it up. Read a few pages.

And I was hooked, for life.

Because this little book packs more
life-lessons into a few hundred
pages than ANYTHING you could
read about meeting women,
alone.

Because if you want to get good with
PEOPLE in general, it has some of the
BEST advice you've ever discovered.

And because once you're good with
people, you'll get TONS more out of
ANY advice written about being
good with women.

Because you'll know women, from a
HUMAN perspective.

And just to give you a taste of
how badass this book is, I'm going
to share with you EXACTLY what I
learned about how to pick up a woman
without saying damn near ANYTHING.

And I discovered this technique,
straight out of Dale Carnegie's
book.

******************************
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN SEE YOU
AS THE MOST INTERESTING, SEXY
AND FASCINATING MAN SHE'S EVER
TALKED TO - WITHOUT SAYING A
WORD!
******************************

And I'm going to back EVERY word
of that up. Just you watch. :-)

**********************
HERE'S THE BASIC IDEA:
**********************

People like to feel important.

In fact, I'd wager that if you walked
down an average road and paid an
average woman an average compliment...

... Well, you'd flat-out make her
day.

She'd tell her friends about you.

Or she'd keep it to herself, and smile
about it later on.

Not everyone wants to be a rock star.

And you may not want to feel "better"
or "bigger" than anyone else.

But deep down, some part of you likes
to feel special and important.

It's natural, and it's in all of us.

*************************
AND HERE'S WHERE IT GETS
INTERESTING:
*************************

Because people like PEOPLE who make
them feel important.

Remember a person who impacted your life
in a POSITIVE way.

Someone who made you feel "on top of the
world"

Do you remember how they did it? Great.

Usually, they helped you unlock a side
of yourself... or notice something you
already knew... That made you feel
special or important.

And because YOU felt good, you naturally
associated THEM with your good feelings.

This type of association is extremely
powerful, and UNIQUE to human beings.

(As an animal)

**************************
SO HERE'S HOW YOU USE THAT
IN YOUR DAY TO DAY LIFE:
**************************

When you make other people feel special
or important, you'll automatically
become "that guy", to THEM.

And they'll LOVE having you around.

Even if you start out as a stranger,
and ESPECIALLY if she's a woman who
you're attracted to.

Because women love to be adored, wanted
and feel as special, intelligent and
beautiful as other people.

Most men simply go about it the WRONG
way:

************************************
HOW BEING AN AMAZING LISTENER WILL
TURN HER ON AND WIN YOU MORE FRIENDS
EVERY TIME:
************************************

You want to make her feel special.

And you don't want to talk a lot,
or flatter her with insincere
compliments.

So what do you do? SIMPLE:

You listen. And you listen your
ASS off.

Talk enough to find out what she's
passionate about.

(HINT: Ask her questions, like
"What are you passionate about?"
Sneaky, huh? ;-)

Then be actually interested.

This is the EASY part, if you
follow these two simple steps:

1) STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT TO
SAY NEXT

I've done it.

You've done it.

We've all done it.

You've been talking to a girl,
worried about what funny, witty
or interesting thing you were
going to say next, in order
to impress her.

Thing is, while you were thinking,
she was talking.

And she was MUCH more interested
in what SHE was saying - Than
what YOU wanted to say next.

That's also simply human nature.

So instead of thinking about what
to say next, just listen. Agree
with what she's saying.

And next time you feel tempted
to cut in or interrupt, take
another second or two to let
her blow off her steam.

She'll feel like she EXPRESSED
a bunch, and like she's now
INVESTED in your conversation.

Which means she'll stay with you
longer, and be much, MUCH more
interested in what YOU have to
say when you finally speak.

2) FIND OUT WHAT MAKES HER UNIQUE

And this is something I talk about
ad nauseum in The Attraction Code.

(Which you should have as your
"meet women bible" by now, and
you can check it out here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php)

Because she's different than ANY
other woman you've ever met.

She has different wants, needs,
frustrations, desires...

... And even day to day, she's
either looking for a healthy
relationship or a one-night
stand.

But if you're doing all the talking,
she can't TELL you what she wants.

So let her talk.

And FIND OUT what she likes to talk
about.

Ask questions about things you're
interested in.

For example: Just last night I met a
girl in a bar, and she was a REAL
"motorcycle girl"

She LOVED guys with bikes, and said
she's dated men just for their
machines.

So I asked her:

"Is it the motorcycle that turns you
on? Or is it the freedom of the open
road?"

Because I was curious.

And it turns out, I was WAY off base.

In fact, she liked guys with motorcycles
because she LOVES the machine, but is
afraid of killing herself if she
drives her own.

So she likes men who can provide safety
on her favorite type of ride.

I would've never known that if I
didn't ask her about it.

And it was IMMEDIATELY after that
second of chit-chat that she got
scooped up by her friends.

And I got her phone number.

With one simple question. Not even
20 words. And ten or fifteen minutes
of easy listening to a beautiful
woman.

******************************
HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO SEEMING
LIKE AN AMAZING LISTENER AND
CAPTIVATING CONVERSATIONALIST:
******************************

Hell, because some nights you just
don't care what she's saying.

(You just want to look like you
do)

So here are two quick things to
remember about people, that will
AUTOMATICALLY make them like you,
seconds after they meet you.

A) ALWAYS REMEMBER HIS / HER NAME

Or at least try your best.

Because your name is the most important
thing you own.

Way back to Roman days, men would
scribble their names on walls. Simply
saying "Troy was here"

Today, if you hand someone a pen and
a piece of paper, there's a 94% chance
he's going to jot down his own name.

And in the future, there's still going
to be more graffiti and vandalism involving
people's "names" or "aliases" than the
police could ever HOPE to clean up.

So if you use someone's name, and
before you leave say a simple:

"Hey John, it was great to meet you"

... You've automatically left an
insane first impression.

(This works JUST as well with girls
as it does with guys)

B) REMEMBER THESE THREE TRICKS FOR
INSTANT LISTENING:

1) Tilt your head, slightly.

Imagine that you're curious about
what they're saying, and you'll
either quickly BECOME curious
or your body will shift itself
to LOOK like you are.

2) Be an ACTIVE listener

This means SAY stuff.

But just one or two words at
a time.

This is where the "without much talking"
part of my promise comes from.

Because a simple "Oh yeah?" "Really?"
"What was that like?" and "No way!"
can push a girl into opening
up her entire life to you.

Which makes her TRUST you,
completely.

Which makes her feel SAFE
around you.

And which makes going home with
her that night - or soon thereafter -
EASY

3) Smile

You don't smile enough.

Period.

People like happy people, like we
said above.

And smiling both makes you LOOK
happy, and will eventually MAKE
you happy inside.

So smile.

Be happy.

And USE these awesome listening tricks
in your daily life with women.

Now, if you REALLY want to impress her...
Or you're worried what will happen when
you hit a 'dead spot' in the conversation...

... Then I highly recommend you watch
Conversation CURE. It's a one-of-a-kind
toolkit jam packed with everything you
could ever need to fascinate a woman
with your every word.

(And it answers technical questions about
male-female chit-chat you probably haven't
even THOUGHT of, yet. So you'll be prepared
for situations YEARS before they come up)

PLUS - You can try it out for yourself,
today, and only keep it if it WORKS
for you.

So read all the details, and decide
if it's right for you:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

If it's not, or it seems like too big
of a commitment for right now, I highly
recommend checking out The Red Pill
package, because it's smaller...

... But very mighty...

... And it builds your self-confidence
even the first listen through, without
ever "needing" you to WORK or STRAIN
at all.

(No visualization or 'practice' necessary)

And you can tell ME how much YOU think
it's worth, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com

AND FOR TOMORROW, HERE'S WHAT TO
REMEMBER:

1) Listen to women, learn their
names and ASK HONEST QUESTIONS

2) Meet people you don't know
by talking about THEM, not you

3) Smile when you meet people
from now on... Even if it feels
weird at first.

You may feel awkward for a day.

But I promise that will all vanish
as if it was a dream the SECOND you
see women reacting to you differently.

(And that will happen almost instantly)


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