I reached into the email bag today,
and pulled out two questions, a
success story and a rather *weird*
letter from a reader.

In this email, I'll teach you the
3 ways to make a great first
impression.

I'll show you how to avoid COMMON
mistakes, so you don't put your
foot in your mouth the next time
you meet your future girlfriend.
(or boss)

And I'll even give you tips to
make a lasting impression on the
IMPORTANT people in your life.
(Without 'trying' any harder
than you already are)

Plus, you'll discover a few new
conversational techniques...
You'll learn how to master meeting
women QUICKER... And I'll show you
the type of touch that INSTANTLY
lets others know whether you're
a wimp - or a champ.

So, let's get started...

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

"I've got a quick question.

I've been following your advice for
a few years now and my sex life has
never been better but it takes some
work to hook a girl. Know what I
mean?

Like talking to girls is easy and
once I get her interested it's all
over but making her hang on my
every word is a pain in the ass.

Vin, need your help!

- Terrell, Chicago IL"

>> Hey Terrell,

This is pretty common with guys who
get good with women.

You get to the point where talking
to women becomes easy, even FUN.

And the thought of rejection becomes
a thing of the past.

So you talk to tons of women.

You're no longer scared.

And you start to notice more refined,
subtle parts of conversation.

Like what you called "hooking" her.
I actually like to call it the
HOOK POINT, myself.

The HOOK POINT is the exact second
in the conversation where she looks
at you DIFFERENT.

Maybe her eyes light up... Maybe she
turns toward you more... For every
woman it's different, but no matter
what she does, it means the exact
same thing:

"You Now Have My Complete, Undivided
Attention"

And it's from this Hook Point that
all great seduction is done, because
she's completely interested in you
and attracted to you.

The real question is:

How Do You GET Her There?

And there are a few different answers,
my favorite of which is below.

Once you read it, you'll probably want
to raid my bag of conversational tricks
for yourself. (I'd be glad to share it!)

The best way for you to steal my tricks
is to watch Conversation CURE. I held
NOTHING back and shared everything I know
about talking to women... Breaking your
fear of approaching her... And leaving
your mental "blank" behind, for good.

So check it out:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

And today, try this tip:

What's going through her mind when
she "hooks" is one simple sentence:

"Wow. This guy is DIFFERENT"

You switch from "guy at the bar" to
"Vin, the dashing, romantic, sexy
musician who's also an artist and
pro-video gamer"

(I think I embellished a little TOO
far on "pro" video gamer... Don't
you think ;-)

It's all about making yourself stand
out as an interesting PERSON.

Now, "interesting" is a whole different
topic. One I cover EXTENSIVELY in these
newsletters, so keep reading them.

So we're going to focus on making her
see you as an individual PERSON.

And here's how you do it:

When you tell her a story about your
life, include the NAME of your friend,
not just "my friend."

Preferably, you'll use the name
of a girl.

So instead of:

"My friend's a blast. We hang out together
every Saturday and play chess"

You'll say:

"My friend Jill is a blast. She comes over
every Saturday to hang out and play chess"

Yes, I made some extra changes.

(And YOU should make them in YOUR
conversations, as well)

Now, she'll notice THREE things about
that sentence:

1) Girls like you.

Jill likes you. And Jill is a girl's
name. So obviously girl's like you.

Which makes ALL women jealous.

(Jealous is a GOOD thing)

2) Girls like you... As a FRIEND.

Contrary to popular belief, this ISN'T
a bad thing.

Yes, BEING just her friend SUCKS.

But letting her know you have girl
FRIENDS is awesome because she'll
either assume:

A) You're sleeping together.

(see: "Jealousy" above)

or

B) You slept together in the
past / She's trying to sleep
with you because she's at your
place on a Saturday.

(also see: "Jealousy" above.
Awesome how that works out,
right?)

So having girl FRIENDS tells girls
you just met that you have GIRLFRIENDS.

Which rocks.

and

3) She AUTOMATICALLY tries to be
more LIKE your friend, "Jill"

Because she starts to CRAVE a place
in your life. And since she knows "Jill"
has some special quality that lets her
hang out with you...

... Well, the girl you just met will
unconsciously try to be more like Jill.

It's a human trait that college psychology,
NLP and Behavior Modification try to
abuse daily.

And it's the basis for a technique I
like to call "Shaping"

Shaping is when you take a girl - ANY
girl - And you mold her behavior into
your DREAM girl, almost overnight.

I teach it in both Conversation CURE,
and my Dominant Sexual Power program.

If you want more talking techniques,
check out Convo Cure:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

Or, if you'd rather pack on some sexual
skills, give DSP a listen:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

Either way, your dating and love life
is about to get a WHOLE lot better :-)

NEXT!


***SUCCESS STORY***

"THANKS VIN! Thanks so much!

I broke up with my wife of three years
a few months ago and living without her
has been hell to say the least.

Women didn't seem to want me and no
matter where I went I was reminded of
her. It didn't help that I have our
two daughters running around the
house everyday either.

I decided to start looking for someone
special but I don't have the time to
go out and meet girls so I set up an
account on a dating site. Turns out
most of those girls are too stuck up
to answer messages or not good looking
enough when you meet them in person.

I got sick and fed up with it when I
googled 'how to meet women' and came
up with The Attraction Code. I read
the website and thought it was too
good to be true but I figured what
the hell I'll just send it back
if I don't like it and gave it
a shot.

Best decision I've made in years.

I read it everyday and used the
techniques every time I see a
woman no matter where I was.

And after just a month I'm already
dating a cute little brunette who
really loves my kids as well.

I'm convinced that if I would've
stumbled upon The Attraction Code
a few months earlier I could've saved
my marriage.

But now I'm still happier than
I could've hoped for and it's
all thanks to you! I want to
tell EVERYONE about your techniques
and I'd even tell my son to read the
book when he got older if I had one.

No joke Vin you gave me a new lease
on life. Thanks a ton.

- Victor Q., Perth, Australia"

>> Hey Victor,

I honestly have nothing to add.

I sincerely appreciate your writing in,
and I wish you the best in your
dating and sex life.

If you ever need advice, you
know who to ask. ;-)

And I just want to let you know that,
honestly, letters like this are the
reason I STILL do what I do, ten
years running.

Thanks Victor, you made my day. :-)


***QUESTION FROM A READER***

"I just got hired at a new job
and I want to make a good first
impression. HELP!

- Joe"

>> Hey Joe,

(Love Jimi Hendrix...)

Straight and to the point,
so I'll give you the same
courtesy:

Making a good first impression on
ANYONE is about three key things:

**HOW TO MAKE A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION**
*****EYE CONTACT******

Hold it, but not too long.

Because men want you to make eye contact
so he knows you respect him. But not
long enough to challenge him.

A few seconds is good.

(Make sure you smile :-)

And women want you to make eye contact
because it shows you're a confident man.

Also, no staring, and a few seconds
is best.

(A light smile is also nice)

If you can't hold eye contact, you're
sunk on the first impression. So
practice every day by making eye
contact with a few strangers,
and follow it up with a light
smile.

A 'light' smile is the type of smile
you have when a baby niece or nephew
of yours does something cute...
But it would've been boring if
you weren't related to them.

(Or like your smile when a comedian
tells a 'set up' joke, before he
delivers the punchline)

A little lip. MAYBE a tiny teeth.
And mostly, it's in your eyes.

Which is why eye contact is so
crucial.

Almost as important is...

**HOW TO MAKE A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION**
*****HANDSHAKE******

Your handshake.

You've probably met people with 'limp'
handshakes. (And if YOURS is a little
light, pay attention)

So you know how awkward it is to
get a 'half ass' attempt.

However, I've listened to some business
tapes where they recommend CRUSHING the
other person's hand.

I don't know where that guy got his
social skills, but I bet he's not a
favorite around the water cooler.

The BEST handshake is as follows:

Palm to palm. Vertical, not overbearing
or too submissive.

And MATCH the other person's pressure.

If they're light, squeeze light.

If they're tough, bust their fingers.

Because light shakers will appreciate
your gentle touch and hard-asses will
respect your confident grasp.

Give a good handshake to a girl you
just met... PAIRED with great eye
contact... And you're 2/3rds of
the way to an amazing first impression.

(Your boss will probably be woo'd at
this point)

So let's bring 'er home with...

**HOW TO MAKE A GREAT FIRST IMPRESSION**
*****YOUR FIRST WORDS******

The first thing you say to another person
MATTERS.

But what matters MORE is how you make
them feel.

So let's forget exact words for now,
and focus on making the other person
feel GOOD about themselves.

Say something, anything that will
give the person you're meeting a
quick "jolt" of pleasure.

So if it's your boss:

"Hey Mr. SoAndSo, lovely office you
got here. Must've taken some hard
work to climb THIS high"

And if it's a girl you just met:

"I love the way you hold yourself"

or

"You seem like you guys are having
a blast. What's the occasion?"

And here's why it works:

People Like People Who Make Them
Feel GOOD

So give HER a compliment about her
mood or her friends...

... And give HIM a compliment about
his achievements or hard-work.

It's JUST enough to peak their
interest without turning into
a suck up.

And it's the icing on the cake for
an AMAZING first impression.

Try it out, for yourself.

You'll love the results.


***LETTER FROM AN ANGRY WOMAN***

"Vin DiCarlo and Company,

I hate how youre treating women like
were some objects to be won or conquered.
You and your pig coaches should go to
hell and die because you teach guys
how to manipulate women and sneak
into our pants. Im writing on my
blog about how awful you are and
now the whole world will know.

Sincerely,

-Name Withheld, for obvious reasons-"

>> Well...


... Frankly, I'm stunned.

I've gotten some hate mail. And I
get letters every day that let me
know - gracefully - How awful I
am.

(Especially how it's EVIL for me
to have multiple girlfriends, or
teach you how to date many women
at once)

But the thing that breaks my heart
is:

She's Full Of ****.

I've never taught a single man how
to manipulate a woman. In fact,
ten years ago, I broke off from
the budding "pick up artist"
community because they were
too creepy and manipulative
for me.

Simply put, I show men - like YOU,
dear reader - How to IMPROVE your
life so women become attracted to
you AUTOMATICALLY.

So manipulating women becomes
UNNECESSARY.

In fact, I've read EVERYTHING
under the sun on meeting women,
and I laugh at most of it.

They're TRYING TOO DAMN HARD,
because meeting women is EASY
if you're the TYPE OF GUY SHE
WANTS TO DATE.

Become confident.

Become dominant.

Have an interesting life.

And there isn't a pretty girl
ALIVE who wouldn't want to date
you.

THAT I promise you.

How long will it take to get you
there? Well, I can't make any
promises there, if you're just
reading these emails or watching
my programs.

I CAN promise you'll get better
MONTHS - even YEARS - Quicker than
men who are sitting on their thumbs,
waiting to magically TRANSFORM
into a stone-cold stud.

And I CAN promise that when you
try these techniques out for
yourself, you'll be ASTONISHED
at the number and sheer QUALITY
of women you can attract - as if
out of the blue.

But the only way I can give you a
'deadline' on when it will happen
is if you sign up for a Drills
Bootcamp.

And I can give you that promise,
because at the end of three days,
you'll have unlocked the part of
you - deep down inside - That
subconsciously KNOWS how to meet
women...

... That automatically says the
right thing to ANY girl, as if
by magic...

... And the part of you that controls
your body language, so you ooze
'sexuality' the women around you
will pick up on.

So if you want to get this part of
your life handled as quick as possible,
I highly recommend checking out
Drills at the link below:

http://www.DrillsBootcamp.com

... Oh, and as far as your blog,
go for it.

I'll start one of my own, then
post a reply on mine.

Let's see who gets the last
laugh ;-)