Are you struggling to meet women
online... Maybe even wondering why
it's as tough - or tougher - To
meet quality women online as it
is to meet her in person?

Tired of sending messages with
no reply?

A few years back, I developed a
DVD program called NoFlakes! that
includes techniques to FORCE her
to pick up her phone and call you
back.

The good news is... These techniques
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ONLINE.

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>>>

I was playing around on Facebook
the other day, and I got to thinking.

I've had a profile for awhile now.

There's things I like about it:

It's easy to stay in touch with people.
I've got friends from high school,
acquaintances, old flings,
old friends, business associates,
you name it.

And being the smart ass that I am,
I like to send offensive, and funny
(but mostly offensive) comments
to people's pictures and
profile walls.

I don't spend much time on it - in fact,
I'd say I'm actually pretty new at the
whole Facebook thing.

I'm not very proactive at adding friends
or staying involved.

It's just kinda...there.

But I know a lot of people who get
really into it and spend a lot of time
doing pointless Facebook things.

It's like a hobby for the masses.

And it can get addicting.

I've dated girls who spent ENTIRE DAYS
messing around, "playing on Facebook."

I dated one girl who posted nine - NINE -
comments on my profile wall in one day.

And she wasn't a psycho - she just
didn't have anything else to do!

Before I go on, let me say, I used to be
a huge computer nerd. In fact, I still am,
but now I use the computer to meet women
and relax in my free time.

(instead of focusing ALL of my energy
on it, like I used to... yikes.)

The computer is a tool which can
easily waste too much of your time -
actually any amount of time wasted
is too much, but hey, we're all
human.

One of the things I think is really bad
about Facebook is the whole
"adding friends" element.

There's this perception that
it looks bad if you don't have
a lot of internet "friends."

The ironic thing is most people
who have huge friend lists
aren't actually friends with
most of those people.

... But they WILL look people up
on Facebook simply to look like
they have more friends.

This is extremely common
among women - I just read an
article about it actually.

Some quack-psychologist is calling it
"Facebook friends syndrome"
or something equally retarded.

But his point is:

Women get addicted to adding friends
on Facebook because they are
insecure socially - they are social
approval-seekers.

And if you've been reading this newsletter
for any period of time, you know what I think
of approval-seeking.

But it's a different story
when it comes to women.

Women are smaller and generally
weaker than men (obviously there
are exceptions).

Plus they are vulnerable sexually -
they are the ones who get penetrated
and have to deal with a baby
in their body for 9 months.

So they need protection - some sense
of safety. And they get it from
'strength in numbers.'

Through the millennia of evolution,
women have evolved to seek help -
strength in numbers - through
social networking.

This has lead to a strong mental wiring
that makes them seek out affiliation
and approval from others.

>NOTE: If you're tired of other men
getting the women you deserve...
Only to treat her like ********
and STILL keep their girlfriends,
You'd probably love the techniques
I reveal in S-Cubed. Check it out:

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Think about this:

If a woman is disliked by people
she meets, she has no support group,
no one to help her if she is threatened
physically. The situation is worse
if she gets pregnant.

No obviously this is not as big a concern
for a woman in 2009 as it was, say
3000 years ago.

But evolution is slow - the wiring is
still there.

Now why am I telling you all this?

Well first of all, I'm telling you how NOT
to think. Do not get sucked into
the approval seeking game.

If you don't know what approval seeking
feels like, observe your state and
train of thought when you are
on facebook, adding and confirming
friends to your "list."

Secondly, you can leverage women's
high need for approval, by not NOT
GIVING IT TO THEM.

You see, most guys instantly give
women their approval by SEEKING
IT FROM THE WOMAN.

Think about it - if you want someone's
approval, it means you've already approved
of THEM in your mind.

You wouldn't want their approval if
you didn't see them as high value,
or in other words, "approve" them.

So don't seek a woman's approval.

Typically, I will tease a woman
before I give her a compliment.

I will not shower her with compliments
and give her validation simply because
she is pretty.

A woman must earn my affection.

If you can adopt this mindset for yourself,
your interactions will not only be easier,
but you will feel less anxiety, and you
will create more windows for escalation.

This is how to go about "flipping the script"
as I talk about in S-Cubed.

The sad thing is, in our culture, women
are framed as the prize, and men are
brainwashed to accept this as Truth.

A common medium for this is music.

Don't get me wrong: I love music.

A lot of times, I'll need to listen to music
just to get motivated to do stuff like work,
or go for a run, or even before I go out
with friends.

Music is an important part of my life,
as I'm sure it's an important part
of yours.

I'm actually a big fan of jazz, but I also like
a lot of rap, and rock. And I've realized
something over the years.

The lyrics in these genres of music
usually give the WORST advice
when it comes to women.

If it's not some indie-rock dude whining
about a girl who broke his heart and
made him depressed, it's some rapper
talking about how he gets girls by
buying them stuff and showing off
his jewelry.

Now when I hear this stuff, I laugh.

I mean, I get into the music, and
I'll even sing along sometimes.

But the mindset behind these kinds
of lyrics is not just ignorant - it's
EMBARRASSING to hear another man
talk this way!

You see, when I was younger,
I really had nothing to go on
but the lyrics I heard in songs.

Crap like:

"I just wanna tell you how I feel,
giiiirllll, ooooh"

Or

"You broke my heart and now
my life is over, whaaah"

Or

"I'm so rich, I buy champagne,
and impress all the *******"
(to paraphrase most rap
nowadays).

>>> Does this disgust YOU, too?
How men whine and beg for girlfriends,
while women walk around with the
CHOICE and POWER over their relationships?

This all stems from the fact women
are better at COMMUNICATING their
emotions and desires than men.

So if you want to "cheat" and get
on HER conversational level, I highly
recommend Conversation CURE.

You can read more about it, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc27bint
>>>>

When I was younger, my idea of
how to talk to women was either
to be "smooth," whatever that
means (usually guys think it
means lowering your eyelids
and licking your lips)...

Or be sensitive and tell a girl
how crazy I was about her...

Or try to impress her with
how much money I (didn't) have!

It's obviously still a mystery
to most guys WHAT WOMEN
REALLY WANT.

These mindsets are the worst
things you can possibly do!

You'd probably have better luck
not doing anything at all.

And I'm sure you know what I mean -
working your ass off just to get a
woman to know you're alive.

Only for her to give you a polite smile
and turn away to talk to some other,
more confident guy.

And guess what - he's gonna try
half as hard (if at all), and she's
gonna end up sleeping with him,
NOT YOU!

And it's all because you were
seeking approval, and made it
apparent with your persona.

You have to retrain your brain
to think in a way that is conducive
to escalation.

It starts by becoming aware of
the 'old script' or frame you had
with women, and realizing there's
a better way.

S-Cubed delves extensively into this
new way of thinking about and dealing
with, relationships.

It will change the way you think
about interactions.

Instead of doing all that crap that
doesn't work, and spinning your wheels,
you'll know exactly where to go
conversationally.

I've distilled the key elements to
having great conversations with women -
and by "great" I mean natural, easy,
and leading straight to the bedroom
(or the bathroom stall if you're like
some of my trainers and alumni).

The thing is, it's not "hard."

What REALLY WORKS is NEVER hard.

If you're working hard, you're doing it wrong.

If you're reading this, it's because
you want to make a change. If you
feel like you're missing out on life,
you need to take action NOW.

Check out S-Cubed here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s327btm