Women aren't always 'up front' and honest.

In fact, what she's "saying", and what she's
SAYING are often two entirely different things.

Take, for example, when she says "Forget it"
after a fight.

What she's saying is: "OK. Don't worry about it.
We've figured this out, and it's all water under
the bridge"

But what she means is: "I will NEVER forget this.
And I won't let YOU, either"

Now, this is the cause of MOST of the frustration
most men - and maybe you - Have with women.

So when I got this email the other day, it really
hit home.

Read his question, because in my response, I'll
share the 3 Secrets EVERY Woman Keeps From Her Man,
and how to side-step these "battles waiting to happen"
so you have a smooth, trouble free relationship.

>>> And if you're "STUCK" in a dead-end relationship,
you should know there IS a way out! In fact, there's
a way to "rewind" the clock on your relationship, so
she once again acts like the sweet, docile young woman
you fell in love with. The secret: It all has to do with
how YOU act, and YOUR beliefs. I share more secrets
in The Red Pill program. And you can read more about
it, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com
>>>

Check it out:

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

"Yo Vin,

Thanks to your newsletters and The Red Pill,
I finally met this AMAZING girl and we had a
blast for the first month of our relationship.

The sex was awesome, and we couldn't get enough
of each other. I used to think couples that had
tons of PDA or called each other every night were
disgusting, until I noticed I was doing it, too. lol.

But in the last week or so, we've really hit rock
bottom. There's no more sex. And we fight almost
constantly. I'm itching to leave, but I really love
her, and I don't want to make her life even
harder for her. (She's going through a rough
spot, financially)

What should I do? Got any advice?

Thanks again for everything you've done for me,
and I hope you can help me with this one!

- Joey P., Orlando FL"

>>>> Hey Joey,

First thing's first:

YOU've got to live YOUR life.

If it's time for you two to break up, it's time
for you two to break up. Because NEITHER of you
should be stuck in a dead-end relationship,
when you could be healing, separately.

So if your ONLY reason for being with her is
so that her life isn't harder... Well, maybe it
would be best for both of you if you moved on
and made it easier for her to get back on her
feet.

But I have a sneaking suspicion that's not the
case.

You see, I've been in countless relationships over
the years, and the pattern you're describing to me
seems WAY too clear:

The sex starts to "run dry"

Then you start bickering

And before you know it, there's full out fighting,
or you're quietly planning to pack your things and
call it quits.

And then, regardless of who calls it off, you're both
feeling sad, unfulfilled and wondering if you cut a
good thing short, TOO quickly.

I've noticed this is USUALLY due to a lack of communication.

And no - Not "Dr. Phil" ********, either.

I'm talking about you being 100% clear and upfront with
your girl about how you're feeling, and how your
relationship could be better.

Because I'm almost POSITIVE she's keeping her feelings
from YOU, as well.

In fact, in the past ten years, I've noticed relationships
tend to come to an end because women keep THREE important
secrets to themselves.

Then she broods over them.

And before you know it, she's upset with you - even RESENTS
you - and you had no idea it was coming.

So here are those three main secrets, and how YOU can
side-step the fights, before they ever happen:

*********************************
SECRET SHE'S KEEPING FROM YOU #1:
THE BIG "O" - OR LACK OF IT
*********************************

Sadly, this is the big secret she's keeping from you:

The Sex Just Ain't Good As It Used To Be!

And it's not your fault, either.

The fact of the matter is, good sex - even GREAT sex -
gets boring when you have it all the time.

So she starts to get "used" to it.

So it doesn't "excite" her as much, any more.

So she doesn't "want" it as much.

And then you think she no longer finds you sexy,
or is seeing another man.

When NOTHING is farther from the truth!

The good news is, this is the easiest secret to
discover, and to fix:

FIRST: If your sex life isn't getting STONGER and MORE
FREQUENT, she's probably holding this secret from you.

Pretty easy so far, right? Great.

SECOND: Get her "charged back up"

This is also fun, but a bit more challenging:

Because what she's missing is the EXCITEMENT and VARIETY
you two had, when you first started having sex.

So all you need to do, to re-spark the heat (or to keep
her from going stale in the first place) is to keep
your bedroom antics HOT and SPONTANEOUS.

Here are some great tips:

1) Keep sex OUTSIDE of the bedroom.

If you only have sex in one place, or at the same time
every day, she's going to get bored.

So vary it up. Have a morning quickie. Jump her BEFORE
dinner.

And bend her over the kitchen table or back seat of
your car from time to time. Even though you have a
comfy bed waiting for you two.

It will reheat her engines, and make her "ready and
willing" much, MUCH longer into your relationship.

(I still have regular, daily sex with my girlfriends
YEARS into our relationship, because of this)

2) DON'T always aim for the "Big O"

Yes, you want to make her orgasm sometimes.

(Hell, it's fun for both of you)

But it shouldn't be your GOAL for sex, all the time.

This goes hand in hand with what I said above:

If she KNOWS the routine, it won't excite her.

So having a 15-minute quickie where you're really dominant,
and the focus is on YOU will actually make it EASIER for
her to climax the next time you two are together, because
she won't worry whether you're having fun or not.

You'll be "orgasm equal", so to speak.

3) Don't be scared to dominate her.

Take control in the bedroom.

Talk dirty to her.

Throw her around a little bit.

Change positions whenever - and to whatever - YOU want.

It may seem forward, at first, but she'll get much, MUCH
more out of the sex when she knows she can't just walk
all over you in bed.

And as long as you let her know you care for and respect
her AFTER the sex... She'll love it. Even get off on it.

So your sex will be PASSIONATE for the duration of
your relationship. :-)

Onto the next one!

*********************************
SECRET SHE'S KEEPING FROM YOU #2:
THE REAL MEANING OF "FORGET IT"
*********************************

This secret is almost common sense.

And it's been made fun of on sitcoms since the 1990s.

But it doesn't mean it's any less true. In fact, the
sad truth that people IDENTIFY with the woman who says

"Nevermind"

And then holds a grudge is a testament to just how
MANY women say this, on a daily basis.

The fact of the matter is this:

If Your Fights End Clean, Your Sex Can Stay Dirty.

So if she tries to "walk away" from a misunderstanding,
just stop her and say:

"Baby, I know you're still upset. And I don't want
us going to bed mad at each other tonight. I promise
to listen the best I can, so tell me what's on your
mind"

And then listen.

If you can fix it, fix it.

But most of the time, just recognizing the she needs
to VENT is enough to calm her down.

Which will make a "buildup" of negative feelings
almost impossible.

Last secret:

*********************************
SECRET SHE'S KEEPING FROM YOU #3:
WHY SHE NEEDS YOU TO TAKE CHARGE
*********************************

Even the most POWERFUL, RICH or FEMINIST woman
needs a man who can take charge, in her life.

In fact, the more successful or empowered a woman
IS, the more she CRAVES a dominant man in her life.

This isn't because she wants to be "put down" or
"in her place", either. There's nothing further
from the truth.

Because the TRUTH is that a POWERFUL woman needs a
POWERFUL man. Because she can't respect a wimpy guy.

So when you see beautiful girls with guys with money,
or power... That's the reason.

Because she feels he's more POWERFUL than her.

Thankfully, you don't need the power, or the money
or the fame to have beautiful women treat you with
RESPECT and LOVE.

You simply need to learn how to be dominant.

Are you dominant? Well, let's see:

* Are you the LEADER of your social group, or the
follower?

* Do you make your own decisions, or let other men
or women make decisions for you?

* Do you feel in CONTROL of your dating and sex life?
Or do you try to "get lucky"?

As you probably guessed, the first option is
the life of a dominant man. And the second?

Well... Not so much.

But you can change your life.

You can go from wimp to pimp with women. (Witty, right?)

I know because I've been awful with women, and I even
let my ex-wife walk right out of my life not even ten
years ago.

And now, I have 3 beautiful girlfriends who all love
and respect me. Not to mention want sex CONSTANTLY.

Everything I learned and used to change my situation
is written down in a book I call The Attraction Code.

You can read more about it here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you haven't picked up a copy, I highly recommend
doing so - Immediately.

But if you specifically want more CONFIDENCE in your
life, you probably want to change how you SEE yourself.
Or how OTHERS see you.

And this all stems from your BELIEFS about you, your
self-image and your ability to meet women. If even one
is lacking, you'll never be as confident as you naturally
could be.

That's why I designed The Red Pill Program. It will give
you everything you need to empower your masculine self-
confidence and image. And the best part is, YOU can
take part in this program for whatever YOU think is
fair. Let me know, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com

And today, when you see a beautiful woman, make sure
you USE these three secrets to YOUR advantage.

Not hers.