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If you've ever taken a girl on a first date,
you've wondered:

"Is she having fun?"

"What do I say now?"

and... When you arrive at the end of the night...

"What the hell do I do now?"

HERE'S A LITTLE SECRET:

The most important part of a date is HOW YOU ACT
around your woman.

It's the first thing she looks at. And it's the ONLY
way to get her attracted to you, because even money
and power only make her hot because YOU could get them.

So in this email, I'm going to reveal 5 simple tips
for having AMAZING first (or later) dates. And if you'd
like to put your "best foot forward" on a date, regardless
of where you're going or WHAT you're doing, I highly
recommend getting your hands on a copy of The Attraction
Code. You can get the details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

Last night, I got back from a first date with a new
girl. I brought her back to my place, and we ended
up in my bed.

And I thought to myself, "Man, if only I knew back THEN
what I know now..."

And then I realized, I could share the tips and techniques
I use to get a girl back to my place on the first date
with YOU - So YOU can have fun, fulfilling, exciting
first dates, without having the learn or get rejected
in the process.

Even better - These date tips work WONDERS for a first date,
but they're even MORE effective the longer you're dating
a woman.

So use these tips the first time you two go out.

Keep using them down the road.

And she'll never get bored, or "play hard to get" when you
schedule a date, ever again.

Let's start with one of my favorites:

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WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #1:
COMPLIANCE, COMPLIANCE, COMPLIANCE
********************************

Compliance is a term I use a lot that means:

"Getting her to work for you"

And it's important because people value things they WORK
for, not stuff they get for free.

And this applies just as powerfully to love, romance and
sex as it does to trinkets, money and power.

So when you go on a date, always make sure she's "working"
harder than you. Don't make it TOO difficult, but here
are a few suggestions:

* Have her drive farther than you, to meet you

* Maybe have her pick you up, and drive YOU places

* Give her directions with one turn missing, so she has
to call you for help

* Have her do things for you like hold your drink, wait
for you to grab something, or sit where you tell her to

These are all little things, but they add up in her MIND.

And when piled together, she'll have almost no choice but
to become physically attracted to you.

After all - She WORKED for your attention, right? :-)

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WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #2:
KEEP IT FUN & EXCITING
********************************

But as soon as you learn compliance ^^^, you should
forget it - completely.

Make this your goal of the date: To give her an AMAZING night,
regardless of "outcome" (ie. what happens at the end of the
night)

Because focusing on the "outcome" will make you look needy
or even insecure. And no smart, intelligent and attractive
woman wants a needy insecure man.

So by trying your best to "live in the moment", be fun and
making your date as fun and exciting as possible, you'll
automatically turn her on.

Counter intuitive, isn't it? That's why it takes so many men
FOREVER to learn. And sadly, thousands upon thousands of guys
never figure it out for themselves.

It all comes down to a lack of EXPERIENCE with women. Which
stems from a lack of BELIEF and CONFIDENCE in yourself.

And it all back be FIXED once you take a good, honest look
in the mirror, then see the powerful sexual confidence you
had hiding deep inside you.

I designed the Dominant Sexual Power program to unlock that
sexual confidence. And you can read all about it, at the
link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp


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WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #3:
HAVE MULTIPLE 'MINI-DATES'
********************************

Here's where we start getting skillful.

Always schedule multiple "mini-dates", instead of just one
"DATE" date.

For instance, I used to take girls to dinner, then grab a
drink at an after-hours place and then head back to my place
for a movie. (Which we picked out on the way)

I know now that dinner is an AWFUL date idea, because you
spend money and you both feel full and bloated. But the mini-
dates idea stuck.

Did you catch the sneaky trick? No? Let me explain it to you:

We get closer and closer to my place, without making any
big "jumps"

So when you want to end the night back at your place, it seems
like "oh, it's just a few blocks away" instead of "lets head
downtown to my place."

AND - In her mind - Every time you change LOCATION, you've
gone on a separate date. Because your mind separates DATES
usually based on ONE LOCATION.

(Since it's how everyone ELSE does it)

So when you bring her back to your place, you're already on
"date three" in her mind. And date THREE is usually the date
she feels comfortable... Well, you know ;-)

THE KEY here is to schedule these mini-dates in advance.
Not with her, but in your head.

So take a second to plan out THREE mini-dates that:

A) START at a fun place, where you both play a game or
take place in an activity. Ie. rock climbing, bowling,
an arcade... etc

B) NEXT move to either a place where you can get drinks,
or cool down from activity #1. Ie. after hours club, ice
cream, walk in the park... etc.

C) THEN either do another B date ^^ ... or...

D) FINALLY end it back at your place. But use an "excuse"
date, like a movie, or listening to music, etc.

The great part is, if she decides you're moving a little
"too fast", you just invited her back for a movie or
music.

So you're not rejected. You don't look creepy in her eyes.
And if she comes in, sex is almost always on the table.

But if she doesn't - No harm, no foul. You both still had
an AMAZING night.

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WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #4:
MAKE IT END BACK AT YOUR PLACE
********************************

I kind of covered this in the section above, because it's
EXTREMELY important.

Here's another thing to think about:

When you end the date back at YOUR place, it makes you
automatically come across as the guy in power.

Because you're home, and she has to drive back to wherever
she lives. She's working HARDER for you, remember?

It's a subtle little tip, but it pays off in the long
run.

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WAYS TO HAVE AN AMAZING DATE #5:
GO FOR THE GOODNIGHT KISS
********************************

Or the arm around the shoulders.

Or try to get her in bed.

JUST DON'T LET IT BE THE FIRST TIME YOU TOUCH HER!

You should be lightly touching her arms, waist and legs
throughout the night.

Start with the arms, move to the torso and legs... And finally,
when you go for the kiss, it will be a NATURAL progression.
Instead of coming out of the blue.

I discuss this in much, MUCH more detail in The DiCarlo
Escalation Ladder. It tells you how to touch a woman so you're
smoothly getting more intimate. And The Ladder even shows you
how to go from first kiss to your first time in bed together
in as little as 20 minutes.

Best of all - It's FREE when you claim your copy of The
Attraction Code, today. Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

This is important for the same reason MINI-DATES work:

You're being SMOOTH, instead of RUSHED.

Instead of NEEDY.

Instead of INSECURE.

And it shows you don't NEED sex - You just want to be more
physically intimate with HER.

(Which ironically makes sex with her that much EASIER)

So if you want to give a girl an amazing first date, make
sure the last thing she remembers about you is a SMOOTH,
PASSIONATE good-night kiss...

... Instead of an awkward goodbye hug that leaves you both
unsatisfied.

Now these tips will give you an amazing date idea, almost
100% of the time. But what if you can't get her phone number?
Or what if you get her number, and she practically REFUSES
to meet up in person?

She's got every excuse in the book... And you secretly think
she's slowly losing attraction for you...

HINT: The BEST way to spark her attraction is to meet her
again IN PERSON - And remind her why she liked you in the
first place.

And if you'd like an easy, three-step system to get any
girl's number... Then make her pick up her phone like Brad
Pitt was on the line, and nearly BEG to meet up with you...
Then I highly recommend you get your hands on the NoFlakes
DVDs.

In this program, I give you an easy three-step system to make
any woman almost BEG for a first date. And I even show you
text messages that WORK - And you can steal, word-for-word.
Check it out:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

And I'll talk to you soon.

PS. Try this:

A) Bowling

B) Ice Cream

C) Movie at your place

It's basic - and not the BEST date you can come up with -
But it's a PROVEN winner.

And as long as you keep it fun, light and exciting, she'll
feel like a little kid again.

(Which is a GOOD thing)


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