I used to be a stumbling idiot
when it came to talking to women.
I didn't stutter... Too much...
And I didn't ALWAYS say the "wrong"
thing...
In fact, I remember ONE TIME when I
said something SERIOUSLY witty, and
everyone around me laughed...
... Except the girl I was interested
in.
She didn't HATE it, though.
That was not even ten years ago.
Boy, how time flies...
Today, I'm much 'smoother' and more
confident when I speak.
(In fact, every other day, I write
an email to YOU... So I'll let YOU
be the judge as to whether or not
I'm still as TERRIBLE as I used
to be ;-)
I've met THOUSANDS of women, from
around the world. In DOZENS of different
countries.
And today, I can walk up to 10 women
I meet on the street, and get EIGHT
or more phone numbers.
Good ones, too. Because I'll get at
least SEVEN first dates.
And - if I so choose - Even 4 or 5
new girlfriends.
Not bad for a day's work, right?
Ten years ago, I would've sold my
SOUL for the life I live, today.
And I bet any sane man would've been
right behind me, just waiting to sign
on the dotted line.
It's no secret that if you're a man
with a pulse, you'd like to be
'smoother' with women.
Maybe you'd like the COURAGE to
finally TALK to her.
Or maybe you're a funny, intelligent
guy when your friends are around...
And your mind simply "Freezes"
when you're placed in front of
a woman.
Hell, maybe you just want a few
of the RIGHT words... For a change.
Well, in that case, you're reading
the PERFECT email for you.
Because today, I'm going to show you
the TOP THREE biggest mistakes you're
probably making - When you talk to
a woman.
(or your boss... or even your
buddies!)
However, if you'd like to completely
HANDLE talking to women, once and
for all...
... I mean, cross it off the list,
and consider yourself smoother
than Shakespeare...
... Then I HIGHLY recommend claiming
YOUR copy of my Conversation CURE
program.
I'm not going to put off the goodies
and free info for much longer, though,
so I'll just let you check out the
details on your own time. Right here:
http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
And now...
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DICARLO'S TOP 3 CONVERSATION MISTAKES
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#1: ASKING TOO MANY QUESTIONS
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This is so common, it's become a
sit-com standard.
And it makes PERFECT sense, so don't
feel bad if you do it from time
to time.
(I'm still guilty of it, every
once in awhile)
Because you're about to meet a
BEAUTIFUL woman.
She looks great. Smells great. Feels
great.
And she's got a funny / smart side,
too.
A real keeper. The kind of girl
you introduce to your friends and
family.
So you want to get to know her,
and PROVE to her that you're
interested in her for MORE than
just her looks.
And then, you ask her questions.
She answers one.
You ask another.
Because you ALREADY know everything
there is to know about YOU... So
why hog the conversation? Right?
Makes perfect sense, logically,
until you look at it from HER
viewpoint.
She gets asked the same questions
by dozens of men, every time she
opens the door.
She's - frankly - Sick and tired
of answering them.
And every time she goes to find
out more about YOU, you either:
A) Ramble on and on and on...
(and we're going to cover that
in a second)
or
B) You flip it back on her.
So she gets bored, frustrated and
uninterested.
HERE'S THE FIX:
Ask BETTER Questions!
Be original, and ask her about
her passions in life.
And make her think "Wow, I've never
been asked that before. That's such
a good question. He must be creative
in BED, too"
(Women think like that... It's the
Ripley's Believe it or Not truth,
and it's plastered all over Cosmo
magazine)
Just make sure you avoid...
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#2: TALKING ABOUT YOURSELF
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TOO Much.
Let her breathe.
Let her impress YOU.
She wants to be attractive to a
guy for her wit and personality,
not just her curvy frame...
... And when you hog the conversation
you shut her up, for good!
(Again, I'm guilty of this from
time to time... I mean, look at
these emails! One sided all the
way. That's why I encourage you
to write in your questions to
askvin@vindicarlo.com. I check
em once per day. Personally.)
YES, you have to impress her.
YES, you need a way to show her
your funny, intelligent and charming
side.
And YES, you need some time to
be dominant.
However, you need a very SMALL
space to do it in.
One or two sentences at a time,
unless you're telling a story
or two.
There's an EXCELLENT chapter in
Dale Carnegie's "How To Win Friends
And Influence People" where he
talks about our need to feel
IMPORTANT.
(By the way - If you haven't
read this book... Go get it,
immediately.
My programs and dating advice
is EXCELLENT for meeting women,
and if you pair it with general
advice for being confident and
good with people...
... Well, there ain't no one
stopping you)
He says our need to feel important
is a HUGE driving emotion in
people.
And women are no different.
So by letting HER talk, and
being interested in HER, you're
subtly showing her that you
ARE interested in HER.
And that SHE is important,
to YOU.
So ask the right questions.
When it's your turn to talk,
keep it short and simple,
by saying the RIGHT words.
And finally...
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#3: RUNNING OUT OF THINGS TO SAY
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Your mind goes "blank"
It's happened to all of us.
I was in mid-sentence with the hottest
girl I've ever met in my life, and I
froze up.
In fact, I couldn't get another
word out.
I walked away, red faced and embarrassed
and missed out on her for good.
I bet you can think of a similar
situation in your life, because
it's MUCH more common than
you may think.
In fact, I'd risk a guess that
90% - or MORE - Men and women
have 'froze up' at one point
in their life.
So what made YOU freeze up?
And how can you stop it from
ever happening again?
Simple:
Always Have Something To Say
And that's where experience really
shines.
When you've talked to a few thousand
women, you start to have the same first
few minutes over and over again.
So you experiment with different
ways to talk to her.
"Do I ask her questions, or tell her
a funny story?"
"Should I talk about me, or get her
to brag about herself?"
"Do I give her a compliment, or should
I talk about something interesting?"
Whatever it is, once you try it a
few dozen times, you KNOW which one
works best.
And you'll never need to "scramble"
for the right words, ever again.
That's why I put together Conversation
CURE - To share the thousands of hours
I've spent talking to women, with you.
To let you "cheat" and "steal" my
experience - And the experience of
5 OTHER men who have each talked to
HUNDREDS of women.
(Including in10se - TwoTimer from
Neil Strauss' New York Times Best-Selling
Book "The Game" - Who shares a secret
hypnotic pattern proven to get girls
turned on in seconds)
You can read more details here:
http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
And if you're not sure whether this
program will help you, let me give
you a quick run-down of what's
inside:
* You'll discover every way possible
to talk to women - Including the first
thing to say (You've never even IMAGINED
what works BEST... And it's easy as
tying your shoes)
* You'll learn HUNDREDS of "right"
questions and answers, so she'll never
throw you a 'curveball' you can't
handle (And you'll see why her
most EVIL questions actually
mean she's FALLING for you)
* You'll learn how to tell a story so
mesmerizing, she won't be able to
leave your side... Even if her
friends try to drag her away (From
a published writer who's work
would ASTONISH you, if you
knew his 'pen-name')
* You'll learn how to CHOP awkward
silences short - to mere milliseconds -
And 'recover' with her attracted to
you even STRONGER (Plus, you'll
never have to 'think' of what to
say, ever again...)
* You'll discover the 'hidden language'
she uses when you two chat, that tells
you - word for word - Exactly what she
WANTS TO HEAR... And WHEN you should
say it back to her (She'll melt like
chocolate in the palm of your hand)
* And a whole, WHOLE lot more...
Not like most TV commercials where
they go "And much much more"...
... But mean another 30 seconds of
bonus footage, teaching your dog
how to throw a horseshoe.
Conversation CURE was two FULL 8-hour
days, before we edited it down.
And even then, it's a SOLID 8 DVDs,
3 CDs and a whole stack of bonuses.
Including the one - and ONLY - Time
in10se (Published in Neil Strauss'
National Best-Seller "The Game")
DEMONSTRATES his hypnotic pattern
on a real, live girl.
Let me say that again: In10se will
show YOU how to turn a girl on in
mere SECONDS, and then SHOW you
step-by-step on a real, live woman.
(This is so powerful, he FORBADE anyone
but me from sharing it with the world,
because we're long-time friends)
Oh yeah... Almost forgot...
Everything I've mentioned you'll
learn, above, will be demonstrated
on live, beautiful women.
So you'll learn it.
You'll hear it.
And you'll SEE it done.
It's the best I can do without
going to your house, bringing
a beautiful woman and picking
her up FOR you.
Because that's how effective ANY
program has to be, before it gets
the DiCarlo Coaching seal of
approval.
If you want more information,
head here:
http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
And no matter what - Keep those three
HUGE mistakes in mind, next time you
talk to a woman.
If you avoid them - You'll stand out
above the crowd like a shining pillar
of light, to her.
And if you make them - You're just
another grey-cloud on her dating
horizon.
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