Got an awesome email, and with it
I'm going to share an awesome
answer.

In this email, I'll teach you my
most powerful technique for keeping
a conversation going for as long
as you'd like.

No matter what you're talking
about, or where you meet her.

Check it out:

>>>
And if you want a hollow-tip clip
of conversational ammo, watch
Conversation CURE. You can read
more about it, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc23tint
>>>

****QUESTION FROM READER****

"Hey Vin,

been getting your newsletters for a while
and I gotta say I'm pretty impressed.

I have read numerous books about women
(yourself and a few others) and I gotta say,
it has totally changed my life.

Before I couldn't even talk to women and
now I can flirt like mad and most of
my friends can't wait to see me!

It's been an awesome turn around

Well anyway, there is a major issue I have
though. I can be fun and entertaining and
have an awesome time for a while, but
I find that sometimes I struggle
with interesting conversation.

It'd be awesome if you could give me
any conversational tips you may have

- what to talk about?

- how to make it interesting?

- specific things I should say/ do
for particular effects?

Thanks man, n keep up the good work!

- T, from down under"

>>> Hey T,

Thanks for the props :-)

I'm glad you've been learning
and USING this information in
your daily life, because you
can read all you want...

... Still, if you're not TALKING
to a beautiful woman every couple
of days, you are not going to
get better, FASTER.

Anyways.

Quite a lot of questions, so
I'm going to answer them one
at a time:

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WHAT SHOULD YOU TALK ABOUT
WITH WOMEN YOU WANT?
******************************

HERE'S THE BIG PROBLEM:

Certain "topics" won't make
your conversations interesting.

Really, there are two parts to
having a conversation that's
got no awkward pauses and
keeps her interested, the
whole time:

1) Being EXCITING

The key here is to be PASSIONATE
about what you're talking about,
even if it's 'boring' by most
people's standards.

For instance, when you're talking
to a woman about her job or where
she grew up, relate it back to
a part of your job you're passionate
about... or tell her a great story
about your growing up as a kid.

Be expressive.

Use your hands.

Touch her on the shoulder or arm
when you want to make a point.

And let your emotions run wild.

THAT'S why she usually goes for
exciting, wild "party boys",
and when you make it work for
you, you can get the hot club-queen
girls without feeling like a
loser.

2) Being SMOOTH

The key HERE is to make each topic
SPRING almost magically from the
last.

Because awkward pauses are simply
silences where you're thinking:

"I wonder what to say" and "oh no!
She must be getting bored!"

HERE'S HOW TO ELIMINATE
AWKWARD PAUSES, ONCE AND
FOR ALL:

It's a technique I call "threading",
because I'll show you how to 'weave'
a conversation out of topical threads,
like a well-knit shirt or sweater.

(I go into much, much great detail
in both The Attraction Code and
Conversation Cure, as well)

STEP ONE: Talk about something.

Anything.

This is the easy part.

STEP TWO: Notice the "threads" in
your conversation.

Sounds tough, but it's really easy.
Let me explain:

In the sentence: "I was a real tech
geek in high school" there are
3 or 4 good threads.

Do you see them? Here, let me
help you out:

"I was" - Your past, things that
happened in the past

"Tech geek" - People you know
who are good with computers,
or your past, embarrassing
experiences

"High school" - Your high school
life, or people you knew in
high school

All threading is, is noticing
these topics and then saying
something about them.

For example, if she says:

"I love reading Cosmo magazine,
especially the sex articles"

... Not only have you scored
a home-run ;-)...

... Also, ALL of the following
sentences would be GREAT, SMOOTH
replies to her:

"Men's Health has got to be my
favorite magazine because it mixes
workouts, fashion and lifestyle"

"I tried reading Cosmo once and
I got sucked in by the stories.
Do you girls REALLY think like
that? It was nuts!"

"My friend told me about this
great 'sex techniques' book,
and I thought he was crazy.
But I got curious and picked
it up, and it's changed my
entire sex life for the
better"

...

... So Threading - and eliminating
awkward pauses, once and for all -
Is simply:

STEP ONE: She says something

STEP TWO: You notice the threads

STEP THREE: You pick one, and
respond

Easy as pie :-)


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HOW TO BE INTERESTING, AND
HAVE FASCINATING CONVERSATIONS
WITH ANY GIRL YOU MEET:
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Ahhh... The age-old "how can I
be INTERESTING, so I can CONVINCE
her to like me?"

It's really a whole lot easier
than you're making it out to
be.

Here's why:

You can't CONVINCE her to like
you.

It's physically impossible.

You can be INTERESTING to high-heaven
and she's still never going to
think "Hm, this guy is interesting.
Maybe I should date him"

I think what you REALLY mean is
"How do I say something interesting
- that will make her FEEL something
for me?"

Because THAT'S where the "g-spot"
of conversation with women is:

GETTING HER TO FEEL EMOTIONS
USING ONLY THE WORDS YOU SPEAK

There are a TON of ways to do this,
but today I'm going to teach you
my favorite:

Story-telling

We're hard-wired to FEEL emotions
when someone tells us a powerful
story.

For instance, if I started telling
you this story:

"I was in the car with my friend,
and it was a rainy night. Thunder
everywhere, and the roads were
slick and wet like puddles.

Out of nowhere, a cat ran across the
road, I swerved to avoid it and
we slammed headfirst into a
tree. I heard the glass shatter,
then I passed out"

... You're going to wonder what
happened next. Was everyone OK?
Was the car totaled?

And with the tone of your voice,
you can set the scene even MORE.

Because you can sound somber for
a sad story... Happy for a glad
one...

From Jesus onwards, we've been
programmed to learn lessons and
feel things from a well told
story.

And there are three major things
most men screw up, when telling
a woman a story to MOVE her
emotions:

1) Poor topic choice.

I can't tell how many times I've
heard frat-stories told to young-30s
businesswomen, or even sob-stories
told to women in general.

Here are a few hard, fast rules:

* Tell her a story that MATCHES
where she is in life (ie. don't
tell young girls stories about
divorce or children)

* Keep your stories UPBEAT and
HAPPY (Unless it's how you OVERCAME
a tough situation, which is
also good. Focus on happy
ENDINGS)

2) The story that never ends,
and is FILLED with useless
information.

Keep it short and simple.

DON'T say:

"Yesterday, because I was feeling blue
and down I hit Harry who's a down-and-dirty
weasel, right in the face"

There's too much crowding, and
your core message gets LOST.

(So she won't FEEL the impact)

Instead, say:

"Yesterday, I hit Harry"

You get the same point across,
and you won't lose her in the
process.

3) Relate it to the topic
at hand.

This is the threading technique
I told you about, above.

If a story comes from left field
she'll be wondering "why is he
telling me this?", instead of
actually LISTENING.

So make it relevant.

And if you'd like to check out a
real story-telling master in action,
you should watch Conversation Cure.

In it, my buddy Rewok (he's got a
great pen-name) teaches a whole
two-hour lesson on how to tell an
amazing story, and then gives
live feedback on three audience
stories.

(So you can pick apart your own
stories ALONG with the DVD, and
next time you tell them to a
woman, she'll be captivated,
instead of bored)

Read all about it, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc23mint


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WHAT SHOULD YOU SAY TO HER,
IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A
ONE-NIGHT-STAND?
******************************

I've gotten more questions about
one-night stands than anything else.

And it makes sense:

Sex is fun. And we're a nation of
instant gratification.

(Plus the thought of getting down
and dirty with a complete stranger
is exciting)

HERE'S WHAT MOST WOMEN AREN'T
TELLING YOU:

SHE loves a little one-night-lovin,
too.

In fact, most women have gone out
with the EXPRESS PURPOSE of having
sex with a random man, that same
night.

So how do YOU become the guy
she wants to take home?

Actually, it's a hell of a lot
EASIER than you may first think.

And here are 3 RULES TO LIVE BY,
FOR ONE-NIGHT STANDS, THE NEXT
TIME YOU GO OUT:

**RULE #1: Find 'the right' girl

I've noticed most women who go
out looking for a one night stand
will go out with a girlfriend who
knows the situation.

So girls in groups of two are a
good place to start.

ALSO - Look for girls who are
dressed a little more sexy, flashy
and spend a little more time
looking around the bar.

These are all subconscious signs
she's "on the prowl"

**RULE #2: Get logistics

When you talk to her, make sure
you ask her these questions
somewhere during your
convo:

"Who'd you come with?"

"When do you have to get up
tomorrow?"

"Who (in the group) drove?"

The correct answers are:

* Alone or with a couple of
friends - No boyfriends or
co-workers

* Later is better

* Her. And she drove in
her own car

Otherwise, there's a great
chance her friends will pull
her away at the end of the
night.

**RULE #3: Shape her

There's a technique I call 'shaping'
that lets you bring out ANY quality
in a woman.

I teach you HOW and WHEN to use this
technique in the S-Cubed program:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s323btm

... And for a one-night stand,
you ideally want a woman who's:

1) Adventurous

2) Spontaneous

3) Open to new experiences

Shape those three qualities in,
and you're good to go.

In fact, I highly recommend you
listen to S-Cubed simply because
in it, I teach you how to TOUCH
a woman so she's turned on around
you, as well as how to use your
WORDS to turn her on, sexually.

And both of those will make a
one-night stand much, MUCH
easier.

Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/s323btm2

Follow those 3 simple rules, and
you'll have no trouble at all
bringing a girl you just met
back to your place to hang out
and hook up.

If you've got any other questions,
please, send em in to askvin@vindicarlo.com

I check my email once per night,
and I'd love to answer YOUR
question.

And if you have any BIG questions
you think only one of my personally
trained Coaches could handle,
consider applying for the
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