If you've ever wondered why
other men seem to always know
what to do and what to say
to women... While you're left
wondering in the dark...

... The cold, hard truth is
they aren't DOING anything
different. They just have a
rock-solid CONFIDENCE about
their ability to meet women.

And in this email, I'm going
to share 3 ways to "FAKE"
this kind of stone-cold confidence
around the woman of your dreams.

But first, if you'd like to change
your beliefs about women and dating
- if you'd like to "re-write" your
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***QUESTION***

"Yo Vin!

I love your book The Attraction Code.
It's really helped me see the reality
about women and dating. I never would've
guessed I'd been in the dark for so long.
But once I checked it out, I noticed
myself approaching women, or even girls
talking to me - out of the blue! So
thanks, big time.

So here's my question: Although now I'm
100% more confident in myself, and I know
I'm dominant and all that good stuff,
sometimes I find myself 'slipping up'
and thinking downer thoughts. And I
see women instantly react to the way
I act around her like I'm turning her
off or something.

Is there a way I can put on a confident
act? Or fake confidence, so she's still
into me, even when I'm not feeling 100%?
I mean, sometimes I'm sick or I've got
work problems you know?

Anyways - love reading your emails and
I hope you answer this in one of them!

- Jared G., New York City"

>>> Hey Jared,

Looks like sometimes dreams DO come
true. ;-)

I love how you noticed the difference
between "Being" confident and "feeling"
confident.

Because most men get stuck on that small,
but very important point:

Just because you don't FEEL confident,
doesn't mean you AREN'T confident.

Like Jared said, sometimes you're going
to be sick, or depressed or whatever.

You wouldn't say a professional golfer
who screwed up a swing is a "screw up",
right?

Well, it's the same with your inner
confidence and dominance.

You need to make sure you understand the
road to true confidence and dominance
is full with little mess ups and
screw ups.

Just remember - You ARE a confident and
dominant man. At all times. You may have
just had an "off" day, or said something
stupid.

(Geez, if I could COUNT high enough to
tell you how many "did I just say that?"
moments I've had...)

Now, to get to your question:

YES, THERE IS A WAY TO "FAKE" CONFIDENCE

And it all has to do with your BODY LANGUAGE.

You see, you can SAY confident stuff to her,
but if your voice shakes or you're staring
at your shoes...

... She's never going to take you seriously.

That's why how you stand, or little things
you *can't* consciously control, like where
and how you look at her, are what she uses
to judge your confidence level.

So to help you out, here are my three FAVORITE
ways to "fake" confidence, so the woman
you're talking to will think you're
smooth, in control and WORTH her
time. (And hopefully, phone number)

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WAY TO FAKE CONFIDENCE #1:
HAVE GREAT EYE CONTACT
***************************

Now, this is tricky.

Because look at her too long or too
intensely, and you'll seem like you're
staring, and come across creepy.

But look away too fast and you seem
insecure or shy.

(Neither turns a woman on)

So what's the right way to hold
eye contact?

And how long should you hold it?

Easy:

*When you're talking or listening,
hold eye contact*

That's the PERFECT amount of time to
hold her gaze in ALL situations
because:

If you're silent, it seems creepy.

And if you're bored, it will come across,
as well.

(Because she'll "see" your eyes fog over,
and you'll instantly lose her respect)

So what do you do during her "boring"
stories?

Or maybe a topic you'd like to avoid?

Simple: Look at other parts of her
face, to hold your attention.

This is AMAZINGLY POWERFUL, for two
reasons:

1) It's EXTREMELY sexual, but not
"invasive"

You're not staring at her chest or
butt.

But you're admiring her beauty, in a
way most men AVOID like the plague.

PLUS - You subtly let her know that
you're not scared, or need to look
away when you're admiring her
physically.

Which sends nice, subtle messages that
you're a DOMINANT man who's in control
of his life - and woman.

(And if you need a refresher course in
the basic laws of dominance, I recommend
you read The Attraction Code. You can
check out free samples, here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac22mint)

2) This type of "eye contact, but not
looking at her eyes" will actually
MAKE you more interested in both
what she's saying, and her beauty!

So instead of getting bored, turned off
and having to "search" for another topic
of conversation...

(through awkward pauses, silences and
other nonsense)

... You actually come up with a few,
new conversational topics to discuss
once she finishes her thought.

You can say things like:

"I love the dimple on your cheek. It
reminds me of my friend Sarah. She's just
a bundle of energy. I bet you're the
trouble maker in your group of friends"

or

"You've got a shockingly blue eyeball.
It reminds me of this weekend I spent
in Key West..."

or even

"Your hair color's very interesting.
You must've had TONS of I Love Lucy
jokes in grade school"

... And instantly, you're talking
about something PERSONAL to her,
as well as INTERESTING to talk
about.

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WAY TO FAKE CONFIDENCE #2:
GET COMFY
***************************

It's almost an iconic image:

The "cool" guy in the leather jacket
or expensive suit leaning back on
the bar, while his beautiful
girlfriend fawns all over him.

So it's easy to dismiss it as
'corny' or 'just something they
use to sell chewing gum' or
whatever.

But the fact of the matter is, the
most comfortable guy in the place
is usually the most dominant.

Think about it:

If you're putting yourself in an
UNCOMFORTABLE situation to talk to
a woman, then you obviously think
she's more important than your
own comfort.

Ie. You think she's worth sacrificing
for. Which gives her every ounce of
power in the situation.

The easiest remedy is to GET COMFY
wherever you are.

And if possible, get compliance from
her to get there.

(Remember: Compliance means making her
work for YOU)

For example:

You start talking to two women at
the bar. You're standing, they're
sitting.

You've got two GREAT options:

Number one is to start telling a story.
And then while you're telling it, walk
between the girls and lean back on the
bar.

So you're leaning back comfortably against
the bar. And you've got a girl on either
side of you. Instantly, you're just as
comfortable as either one of the girls.

Which is great. But you can do a LITTLE
better.

Try this:

Option number two is to find a way to get
a girl OUT of her seat, and then take it
from her.

You can use your imagination to come up
with HUNDREDS of ways to do this. But
this particular way is my favorite:

Grab her hand and tell her you've
got a quick favor to ask her. And
it will only take a second.

Tell her you want to show her something
that will make her friend(s) go NUTS.

And then when she stands up to help you,
take her seat. Act like nothing changed,
and join her friends in teasing her
- lightly - While hanging out in
her seat.

Pull her in a little bit so she doesn't
get angry, and then move right back
to whatever you were talking about.

I like this technique because if you
do it right, you can never "look bad"

Because if she says "no" at any point,
you just shrug it off, and go back
to whatever you were talking about.

No problem.

And if she goes along, she's both WORKING
for you, and letting you become more
comfortable.

Win-win.

As for my final - and favorite - Way
to "fake" confidence:

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WAY TO FAKE CONFIDENCE #3:
TELL HER WHAT SHE WANTS TO HEAR
***************************

At first glance, this looks like a
"fake it until you make it" technique.

Or even "lie to her until she
believes you"

However, both of those couldn't
be further from the truth, and
here's why:

I don't mean lie to her, and I
don't mean "say some magic phrase."

What you should really do, is take
an extra second to LISTEN to what
she's saying, and keep what you're
saying on the same path.

For example, if she's talking about
work - or complaining about her boss
- You COULD say:

"Wow, that sucks" and change the
topic.

Or, you could say: "You seem like you've
got another passion that work isn't
quite covering. What is it?"

And she'll automatically become a
LOT more attracted to you.

The secret is that you noticed something
about herself she usually doesn't tell
people.

You LISTENED to her, and SAW something
about her, beyond her words.

I call this "shaping", and normally
it takes some practice to get "perfect"

But the real beauty behind this technique
is that she'll see you as insightful,
attractive, confident and a whole host
of other, POSITIVE traits...

... And it shines BEST when you're
asking for her phone number.

Imagine you're in her shoes, for a
second:

Every guy you meet wants a "piece"
and practically begs for your phone
number.

Or, you'll have a conversation with some
guy. He's obviously got something on his
mind. And when you politely ask to leave,
he asks for your phone number.

Like he's trying to GET something, or
win a PRIZE.

Obviously, you'll be turned off and
not want to give him your number.

And on the inside, you'll secretly wish
a man would come along and talk to you
who KNEW WHAT THE HELL HE WAS DOING!

So when a guy walked up to you...

Had a cool conversation...

And asked for your number at the RIGHT
time...

... You'd JUMP at the chance to date
him. Because he would stand out head
and shoulders above all the other
guys who BEG to be in your panties.

So, what IS this magical "right time"
to ask for her phone number?

The secret is: It doesn't exist! But
YOU can CREATE it, whenever you
want.

And here's the easy formula:

STEP ONE: Talk about a hobby of yours,
or hers.

This is easy. Just ask her: "So what
do you like to do in your free time?"

or

"What are you passionate about?"

And then talk about whatever she says.

STEP TWO: Think of something cool you
two could do together, related to what
you're talking about.

So if she's a dancer, you could take
her to a show your friend's going to
be in.

Or if she likes live music - which almost every
girl does - You could take her to a little
jazz club you know downtown.

(In fact, you could even take her to see
you or one of your friends play live)

And then TELL her this, by saying:

"You know, that reminds me of *WHATEVER
EVENT YOU THOUGHT OF* You'd love it"

STEP THREE: Talk about it with her
for a few more seconds.

Shoot the ****. Get her interested
in it.

Let her tell you why it would - or
wouldn't - be a good idea.

And then say:

STEP FOUR: "You should come check
it out"

Wait for her to say "YES"

By this point in time, she's
hooked. She can't wait to hang
out.

Then say:

STEP FIVE: "Cool. I'll give you
a call"

She'll either SAY "sure", or say
something similar to:

A) OK

or

B) Here's my phone number

So you win, both ways.

Finally, say:

STEP SIX: "OK, what's your
number?"

and take out your phone.

You've gotten her phone number,
and now you come out looking like
the HERO who knew when to ask
for it.

Instead of the zeros who instantly
turned her off, by being too needy
or greedy.

So try this trick out.

And if you're ready to say the "right"
thing, no matter what you two are chatting
about, I highly suggest you watch
Conversation CURE.

It's a seminar I held with 5 men who woo
women with their words, alone. And they'll
teach you everything from how to cut out
awkward pauses - for GOOD, to a simple
technique to bring her home in as little
as 15 minutes! (Kid you not, this is
damn near hypnosis)

And you can check it out, right here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc22btm

But if you feel that's "moving too fast"
for you, I recommend listening to The Red
Pill to BOOST your self-confidence levels
up, ten notches or more.

You can read about the 'ingredients', and
tell ME how much you think it's worth,
at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/rp22btm

And if you do NOTHING ELSE TODAY:

At least try one of these techniques out.

Because you will see the change it will have
on the women in your life. And even girls
who just met you.

And you will never again need to "fake"
self-confidence, or "cover up" your
shyness around women.