If you've recently been through a divorce,
or broken up with your girlfriend, your
life may seem "over", when it comes to
meeting women.

After all, you just got tossed from
semi-regular sex and comfort back into
the "dating game"

It may seem like the rules have changed
or even like you're starting from
scratch.

I've been there. I broke up with my
wife after only 6 months of marriage.

And in my line of work, you're bound
to get 'dumped' once or twice.

So I've devoted this email to solving
your deepest darkest breakup questions,
sent by email from guys in your shoes.

Check it out:

"Vin,

I've got two kids, I'm 40 and I just
got out of a pretty messy divorce.

I read The Attraction Code and now
I know what to SAY to women Im interested
in but bars and clubs still seem scary
to me.

Do you have any good tips to meet
a woman during the day? I always
see hot moms at Whole Foods and
I'd love to talk to her.

Thanks again for all your advice.

- John C."

>>>>> Hey John,

I'm glad The Attraction Code gave you
the confidence you needed to get back
on your feet.

I remember being crushed when my wife
left me, so I feel your pain.

Thankfully, you're already over the
hard part: Getting your head back
"in the game"

>>>>
If you're still wondering how you'll
ever get over your ex, try reading
The Attraction Code.

I've gotten thousands of emails from
men around the globe who swear The 'Code
helped them see OPPORTUNITY and CHANCE
with women, wherever they went.

And if you're hurtin', that may be
the exact medicine the doctor ordered.

You can check it out - and read some
free samples - at the link below:

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>>>>

You're "looking", single and ready
to mingle.

Which is a HUGE first step.

The next step is talking to a woman
you could be romantically (or just
sexually) interested in.

Like you pointed out, bars and clubs
can be intimidating because it seems
everyone there operates on a separate
set of "rules" you may not be familiar
with.

And alcohol is a killer to your "game"
as well as your sex drive.

So..

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HERE'S SOME GREAT ADVICE FOR
MEETING A WOMAN DURING THE DAY:
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(At a grocery store, especially. Great
catch, discovering how many 'MILFS'
pack into these places)

During the day - and especially while
she's running errands - It's best for
you to come in "under the radar."

If she feels like you're "hitting on
her", she could be turned off.

Or even worse, she could like you
but not want to come across too
"easy"

So a simple conversation starter is
best.

I like to talk about something
around me.

For instance, if she's got a ton of
veggies in her cart, I'll walk up
to her and say:

"Man, you'd make my vegetarian friend
super-jealous right now"

And I'd give her a little smile.

She'd laugh, because it's low-pressure
and kind of funny.

THE MOST IMPORTANT PART IS: Now
we're talking.

Either:

A) She'll tell me the story behind
all of her veggies

or

B) I'll ask her how her day's been,
or what she's planning to do with
the crazy amount of greens in her
cart

Eventually, you'll start chatting
about a common interest, and at
that point you get her phone
number.

I've got a bunch of "smoother" tactics
inside my NoFlakes! program, but here's
my tried-and-true way to get her
number:

"We should totally do *WHATEVER WE WERE
TALKING ABOUT* sometime"

She says OK, I say "I'll give you
a call"

She says OK, I say "OK, what's your
number?"

And boom. Easy as pie.

(By the way, you can check out
the NoFlakes Program, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/nf20mint)

Next question:


"I've read and watched everything
you've ever put out and my dating
life was fantastic.

I met this beautiful girl and we
dated on and off for three years.

But last month she dumped me. I
think it was because I started to
let her make all the decisions and
become the dominant force in the
relationship.

I really chopped off my balls
on that one.

Anyways Ive started going back
out to bars and clubs but Im
having no success.

I always think about getting HER
back and it keeps me from meeting
girls who are otherwise into me
and stunning.

HELP! How do I get over her
Vin?

- Terry K."

>>>> Hey Terry,

I'm glad you used what I taught you
to get a beautiful woman in your life.

Unfortunately, like you said...

... You didn't KEEP using it.

That's mistake #1.

***************************
THE KEY TO KEEPING A GIRL
INTO YOU FOR YEARS & YEARS:
***************************

... Is seducing and attracting her,
each and every time you open your
mouth.

Usually, this will happen automatically
once you've mastered the techniques
in The Attraction Code.

>>> You do have your copy, right?
You can check it out for free, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/ac20bint
>>>

However, it seems to me like you
met this girl and settled down
almost as soon as you got "good"
with women.

So, naturally, your 'skills' started
to fade back to your old and 'normal'
levels...

... Then she slowly got more and more
UN-attracted to you.

OUCH.

Enough focusing on the negative.

*************************************
HERE'S HOW YOU FORGET ABOUT YOUR EX
AND START MEETING NEW WOMEN, TONIGHT:
*************************************

You've gotta fight through the rough
spots.

It sucks. It hurts.

But it's going to suck and hurt
even MORE if you don't meet another
woman, and spend the rest of your
life alone.

Here's a quick fix to make the
'grieving' process shorter:

1) Take a BREATHER WEEKEND, to yourself.

Watch your favorite movies.

Do your favorite activities.

Go hang out at your favorite places.

And overall, take a weekend to decompress,
destress and stop being depressed.

The key here is to not do anything
involving women.

Don't try to meet girls.

Don't force yourself to talk to any
strangers what so ever.

Just put yourself in the most relaxing
and freeing situations and experiences
you can possibly think of.

Take a weekend to compose yourself.

2) Meet women during your DAILY ROUTINE.

Use the advice I gave above^^^^^^^^^^^^
to meet women, during the day.

Because meeting women in bars and clubs
usually involves alcohol.

And alcohol is a - you guessed it - depressant.

So the hard work you spent relaxing and
calming yourself will be quickly reversed
the second a drop of "liquid courage"
hits your tongue.

3) Start heading back to bars and clubs,
with your boys.

It could even be your co-workers.

Just don't go anywhere you could bump
into her, and don't go there alone.

Preferably, pick pals that will keep
your spirits high and not put you
down.

And spend the night relaxing, enjoying
the company of the people around you.

By now, you'll be comfortable talking to
girls again, so you can chat up any cutie
you see if you feel like it.

>>>>
And if you feel nervous, or wonder what the
'right' thing to say is... You've probably
still got Conversational Mindblock.

Ouch.

I recommend you take one of your Breather
Weekend days and pop in Conversation CURE.
In it, I reveal everything you'll ever
need to know to ditch awkward silences
once and for all... And to finally feel
smooth instead of stuttery, around
attractive women.

Read all about it, at the page below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/cc20bint
>>>>

From there, you'll want to get her
phone number and go on a date.

(Or maybe you'll bust out the DEL
techniques and take her home that
night...)

And presto bango, you're one step
closer to ditching your depression
over that she-devil of an ex-gf ;-)

******************************
MAKE SURE YOU REMEMBER THIS
ONE, SIMPLE & POWERFUL THING:
******************************

Ex-wife, ex-gf or none of the above,
you're OK as you are.

Just because one woman either didn't
like you, or wasn't the "right" girl
for you DOES NOT mean you are somehow
'broken' or 'flawed'

(No matter how much ******** venom
she spewed while you two were fighting)

All you need to do, to have the dating
life you've always wanted, is to get
out there and start meeting women.

Read these emails.

Use the techniques.

They really, truly help.

And if you want some additional assistance
(including word-for-word tips, tricks,
techniques and sentences to say)
I highly recommend you check out
The Red Pill program.

In this tiny package, I share a few
secrets that changed my beliefs about
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Best of all - You can have this potent
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Find out how to claim YOUR Red Pill
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Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. And if you need some major guns
help, maybe private coaching is your
best option.

I can hook you up with one of my
extremely discrete and highly trained
coaches at a Drills Bootcamp.

You can read all about it, and apply,
at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/go/dr20ps

Don't worry - When you apply, you're
NOT making a commitment.

You're simply telling me where and
when to send you more info and some
freebies and goodies.

So go apply, today.