When I was in high-school, I spent my summers
working in an amusement park.
Yeah, it really was THAT awesome. :-)
I could come back and ride the rides for
free... Girls my age were running around
in bathing suits...
... And I basically had the most FUN job
imaginable.
PLUS, my ride was near the water park,
so I got to oggle the lifeguards nearly
8 hours per day.
So of course, I wanted to date - and sleep
with - MANY of my coworkers.
I tried to talk to a few girls, but we
ended up as friends because I didn't
know how to take it FURTHER.
And I didn't want to "screw things up"
at work, if I tried.
I figured I'd get it right at my NEXT
job.
So I went to college, got my physics
degree, and went to work as an
engineer.
(Yup, pimp-extraordinaire Vin DiCarlo
started as an engineer - AND janitor.
So if I can do it... ;-)
Well, turns out, there are some sexy
SMART girls, too.
And not even an hour into my first day
at the lab, I already picked out a cute
girl I wanted to sleep with.
She was sexy, dark-haired and had an
amazing body. I was totally hooked.
Thing is, I didn't know what to do.
And our orientation included a LONG, LONG
presentation on sexual harassment.
So I was scared stiff. Too nervous to
make a move.
And I missed out on what could have
been an amazing girl.
I remembered this experience, very
vividly. So when I finally got good
with women, I set out to discover
HOW to date and sleep with your
coworkers, without getting in
trouble.
I came up with three rules.
And if you follow them, not only will
you be MUCH MUCH more likely to date
this girl...
... You'll also be MUCH, MUCH LESS
likely to ever get caught, or in
trouble.
So check them out:
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>>
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THE DICARLO RULES FOR DATING A
COWORKER - NUMBER ONE:
"FRIENDS FIRST"
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You're not going to hear me say this
a lot, because usually I hate being
"just friends"
Because you get all of the emotional
baggage... With none of the sexual,
and emotional, rewards.
But this time, it's different.
Here's why:
If you try to go from "coworker" to
"lover", she's going to resist.
She'll feel like the office is
going to judge her, so she'll
reject you...
... Even if she secretly likes you,
and LOVES the idea.
So the first thing you need to do,
is introduce yourself as a FRIEND.
Find an excuse to talk to her,
and get some chit-chat in.
Eventually, you'll either A) invite
her out after work with friends or
B) Be in the same place as her,
outside of work hours.
Either way, talk to her as a
friend, first.
Get to know her. Be curious.
And make sure you're DOMINANT,
the entire time.
This doesn't mean making choices
for her, or putting her down.
You simply need to MAKE DECISIONS
and LEAD... Instead of sitting
back and following.
So when someone asks you where everyone
should go next, suggest a little bar
you like and start making plans to
go there.
Or if you notice one of your coworkers
not having a great time, go out of your
way to introduce him to a girl... Or
just crack a joke and brighten his
day.
Do this, and she'll automatically start
feeling "seeds" of attraction for you,
which makes eventually dating and
sleeping with her much easier.
Remember: Being a DOMINANT man is
the key to attracting women.
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THE DICARLO RULES FOR DATING A
COWORKER - NUMBER TWO:
"TAKE YOUR TIME"
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Here's the average pickup line:
"You're beautiful, can I buy you
a drink?"
and even worse:
"God you're hot. Can I have your
number?"
WHOA there... Slow down.
Girls are like cats. You need to
approach her slowly, and seduce
her with GRADUALLY bigger steps
and commitment.
And it's no different when you're
going from COWORKERS to FRIENDS
to LOVERS.
Don't try to make it happen
overnight.
And don't rush the sex. (Or the
relationship, either)
She knows how much time she needs
to be comfortable, so play the game
until she's ready.
Usually, I suggest sleeping with
her RIGHT AWAY. Being coworkers is
different because if you screw up,
you actually COULD get in trouble.
Rumors could spread.
You and her may even get fired.
So take your time.
Meet her for a few outings with
friends. Get to know her interests.
Then suggest hanging out, DOING
one of the things she's interested
in, because having something in
common with her makes her MORE
attracted - As long as you're
dominant.
And once she starts asking YOU
to do things, you know you're
GOLDEN.
(You can move to "come over and
make dinner together" BEFORE she
asks you to hang out, usually.
But in this case - It's better to
play safe and READ the signs,
than make moves and be SORRY)
And as a general rule of thumb -
1-3 Months is a great window of
opportunity.
Any less and you risk coming on
too quick. Any longer and her
romance for you grows stale.
So let's say you get her back
to your place...
You two have an amazing evening...
And the next day, you're both back
at the office.
What now?
Well...
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THE DICARLO RULES FOR DATING A
COWORKER - NUMBER THREE:
"KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!"
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And there's an exclamation point
for a reason!
Discretion is KEY in office romances
for 3 main reasons:
1) You Don't Want Her To Feel
Like A Slut
Her reputation is EXTREMELY important
to her.
Think about it: You obviously like
this girl enough to sleep with her
or date her.
So why would you embarrass her in
public?
And why would you risk getting
"caught"?
Because...
2) The Romance And Sex Are BETTER
When You're 'Hiding It'
You get to sneak around, and whisper
about it on the phone together.
Plus, you can slip away between meetings
or whatever for quickies.
Honestly, there's too much fun to be
had during the "lets keep it quiet"
phase to pass it up.
Especially because...
3) You Could Get In Trouble
Rumors suck.
And ****** up policies regarding office
relationships suck even more.
So keeping it quiet is good for you,
and safe for her.
Especially if she works for you, or
the other way around.
So keep your romance quiet.
Don't tell your buddies.
Don't tell Bob in the office down
the hall.
Don't tell anyone, and let HER be
the one who spills the beans,
if they ever spill at all.
In fact - You should treat ALL of
your relationships this way.
Keeping your mouth shut about your
interactions with other women actually
ATTRACTS girl, quickly.
So it's a powerful weapon in your
arsenal, no matter what.
Now, I've got to be honest:
Dating a girl you work with is
TOUGH.
Getting her interested in you requires
a lot of FINESSE to your approach.
Use the techniques I teach you every
other day, and you'll be fine. I
promise.
Just make sure you follow these three
rules.
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Honestly, you'll leave the weekend
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And USE the DiCarlo Rules for Dating
Your Coworker.
They WORK.
I've got dozens of office romances
under my belt to prove it. ;-)
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