If you're looking to give a woman
EXPLOSIVE orgasms, you should know,
the female orgasm comes from her MIND,
not her body.
And the best way to turn her on - to
leave her dripping wet to the touch -
Is to load your interactions with her
with mind-numbing sexual tension.
You can leave her hanging on every word,
and dripping at the end of every sentence,
using the techniques in Dominant Sexual Power.
And you can learn them, at the link
below:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp
Now, onto an amazing email I got,
just the other day, on the SAME
topic:
***QUESTION***
"I love your book Attraction Code and
Conversation Cure because they helped
me go from insecure and shy around women
to finally talking to the girls at my
work, and even women I met on the street.
My life's never been better and I feel
more confident than I ever have. My
entire life!
But here's the thing: When I get a girl
home, I want to rock her world in bed.
Not just make her have an orgasm, or
anything like that, but I want to make
her moan and scream I'm the best she's
ever had. Got any tips for that?
I know there's some kind of "sex secrets"
out there. Can you hook a brother up?
Thanks Vin, love your stuff!
- Eugene K., Oregon"
>>> Hey Eugene,
Glad you're out there talking to women.
It's a crucial first step, and without it,
the tips I'm about to teach you aren't
worth the paper you print them out on. ;-)
So... Onto the good stuff...
You say you want her moaning, screaming
and saying you're the best she's ever had,
huh?
Well there's one problem there:
She could be lying. She could be acting to
protect your ego. And she could be exaggerating
in any one of THOUSANDS of ways.
And unless you know what to look for,
you'd miss it completely.
Hell, even if you knew how to spot a "faker"
from a mile away... All you'd do is ruin your
sexual confidence, and be "thrown off your
game"
So screw it!
How about I teach you 4 little-known facts
about what women CRAVE during sex. And when
you use these facts, the woman you're with
won't be ABLE to moan, gasp or fake...
... Because she'll be too busy trying to
catch her breath, and begging for more!
Sound good? Great. Let's begin:
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SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #1:
FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS
**********************************
Like I teach in The Attraction Code,
the secret to being GREAT with women
is LIVING IN THE MOMENT.
This applies to sex, just as well
as it does to dating.
The key to remember is that she wants
to feel like the most beautiful girl
in the world. Even if she doesn't
want to admit it. And even if compliments
turn her off, or make her shy away.
Deep down, she has a desire - a NEED -
To be WANTED, by you.
So when you're together with a woman,
alone and naked, the most important
thing you NEED to remember is to
FOCUS, FOCUS, FOCUS.
Snap yourself back to the moment.
And enjoy every feeling, touch and
sensation you can.
You see, for her, sex is about sharing
a special part of herself with you.
And if you're not THERE and PRESENT,
it's almost like she's "talking to a
wall"
So immerse yourself in the moment.
Here are a few little tricks:
1) Watch Your Breath
Breathe slower. Pace your breath.
This will help you come back to your
body, and feel your hands, your fingers
and your skin more intensely.
As an added bonus, it makes it MUCH
easier to "stand at full attention"
for as long as you wish...
... So if you're about to get hot and
heavy, I suggest taking some slow,
deep and measured breathes.
2) See The Little Details
I like to make it a game for myself:
What little details can I take in,
about the woman in front of me, and
the room around me?
If I look back on the night, and can't
seem to remember the little curve on the
inside of her hip, I know I need to pay
more attention, next time.
Because our brains work in an interesting
way: When we focus on the BIG PICTURE,
we tend to get a BIG PICTURE result.
But for women, great sex is all about the
little details. The textures. The sounds.
The feelings, angles and pressures of
your touch and stroke.
So to really turn her on, and make her
go wild, start paying attention to the
little details.
It will shine through to other aspects
of your lovemaking skills.
3) Start Meditating
Put aside at least an hour per week to
meditate.
Buy a guided tape, or just sit back and
clear your mind. But do it, because not
only will you have a clearer mind at all
times, more relaxation and confidence in
nearly EVERY situation known to man-kind...
(as well as NUMEROUS health benefits)
... You will also be able to "snap" yourself
back into the present moment, no matter
what's going on around you.
And when it comes to sex - Well, that's
Level One of Tantric Master training.
Which means, you're already head and shoulders
above ANYONE else who she could be fantasizing
about.
And an additional benefit of meditation
is a "slow burn" focus, which basically
eliminates the need to "rush" into
anything... And leads me to point
number two...
**********************************
SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #2:
TAKE YOUR TIME
**********************************
Sex isn't a race.
And no matter what you see on TV, or hear
in awful pop music, being an "hour lover"
or "minute man" isn't necessarily a good
or bad thing.
It all depends on the woman.
But the reason there's this STIGMA for
men who "finish fast", is because they're
notoriously known for RUSHING sex. And
making the sexual experience all about
orgasm.
Don't forget - for a woman, foreplay is
just as, if not MORE important.
So slow down, and smell the roses.
Take an extra minute with everything
you do, next time you're in bed with
a woman.
Literally, tell yourself to take at LEAST
an extra minute enjoying every stage of
foreplay.
I'm talking kissing, every time you touch
her more intimately, every place your put
your mouth... Everything.
And by the time you enter her, she'll
be so hot and wild, orgasm will be a
GIVEN, instead of a goal.
The reason this works so well is the same
logic behind women taking HOURS to get
"in the mood"
And the same logic I used to develop the
sexual tension, vision and compliance
secrets I packed into both S-Cubed
and Dominant Sexual Power:
http://www.GoCubeYourself.com
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp
... respectively.
When You Tease A Woman, You Make
Her Feel Both A) WANTED and B) SAFE
So let's look at each, individually:
A) WANTED:
When you take your time with a woman,
you show her that you value her sexuality,
as a person.
And you subtly show her that you're interested
in her for HER - Not just a pretty face for you
to satisfy yourself with.
It's the difference between having a hamburger
and Ruth's Chris steak for her, sexually:
Both will "do the job", but one's going to
"hit the spot" and the other leaves her feeling
dirty and used.
Be the steak. Take your time.
B) SAFE
If you take your time, she can relax.
She feels safe and protected.
And biologically, this makes it easier for
her to orgasm.
Because when human's used to live in tribes and
villages, men were often killed when they were
caught sleeping with the beautiful women.
(These women "belonged" to the alpha male)
But the alpha male could take his time, and
make love to his woman all day -- Because he had
no competition or rivals to sneak up on him
and assassinate him while he was distracted.
So - in an under-the-radar way - Taking your
time with her mind and her body lets her know
you're the type of guy she SHOULD be sleeping
with.
It makes her feel more safe, relaxed and comfortable.
And it makes her orgasm much easier to attain.
Especially when you factor in this next secret:
**********************************
SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #3:
IT'S ALL IN HER MIND
**********************************
A woman's orgasm is 90% in her mind,
and only 10% in her body.
In fact, many modern studies say those %ages
are TOO GENEROUS to her body. And a recent
psychological sex survey says up to 99% of
all women's orgasms start in her mind.
NOT her body.
Why is this important to you? SIMPLE:
If You Want To Rock Her World In Bed,
Rock Her World OUT Of Bed!
And the most effective way to do this,
is to have TONS of sexual tension in
your conversation with her.
In fact, if you know what to do, you can
"force" her to picture you two in bed together,
while you're having a casual conversation over
dinner!
Because sexual tension is so powerful,
it over-rides her logical brain, and
triggers her raw, lust-driven ANIMAL
DESIRES. So she can't help herself
around you.
But because almost every technique has to
do with how you touch her, or specific words
to say to her... These techniques are WAY
too graphic to mention in an email newsletter.
So head on over to this link, right now:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp
On that webpage, you'll learn THREE of my
top tips for creating sexual tension. Even
as soon as the first date!
And you will also learn how to power-up
your sexual confidence and increase your
Dominant Sexual Power.
So head to the link above, right now.
When you come back, I'll show you...
**********************************
SEX SECRET SHE WISHES YOU KNEW #4:
"TELL ME YOU LOVE ME, BABY"
**********************************
... The final sex secret she wishes
you knew: Dirty Talking.
My friend Dan Rose has a whole SECTION on
dirty talk in his amazing book, The Sex God
Method.
And he even considers it one of the
most important factors for being a
great lover.
Now, I don't know if it's one of THE MOST
IMPORTANT INGREDIENTS TO GREAT SEX, but
it's damn close.
So I'm going to teach you TWO central
"themes" of dirty talk, you can use
to drive her wild.
1) Possession
Lots of guys like to go wild, when they
use dirty talk for the first time.
Some call her dirty names, others talk
about things they want to do to her.
And even other guys talk about how
good it feels.
What YOU need to know, is that WHATEVER
you say to her will probably make her MORE
aroused and in the mood...
... As long as you use a "possession" theme
in it.
What's that? Easy:
A possession theme is basically talking
dirty to her, but always using the word
"My", as if she belonged to you.
So an example:
"You're so beautiful when you come"
turns into
"My baby's so beautiful when she comes"
etc.
She'll go nuts for this one, I promise.
And the second theme for dirty talk is:
2) Dominance
Seems to pop up a lot, huh?
Well, that's because dominance and being
in control is the MOST IMPORTANT PART
of meeting women, and being good with
women in general.
And in sex, there's no exception.
So be the man in charge.
If you want her to do something for you,
let her know and ask her to do it.
And if you want to change positions, toss
her around and change them.
Doing a little rough-housing and man-handling
her in bed will make her go wild.
And dirty talk that lays out in detail
what you're doing to her will drive
her wild.
So, there you have it.
The Top 4 Sex Secrets She Secretly Wishes You
Knew.
And now you're equipped with everything
you need to be an amazing lover.
Want more? How about detailed techniques
or word-for-word dirty talk and lines?
Check out Dominant Sexual Power.
Like the name says, it will show you how
to be the dominant sexual FORCE in your
relationships, and how to power-up your
sexual confidence. Read more, here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp
And if you're still not "hip" to the basics
of dominance, I highly suggest you check out
The Attraction Code.
In this 200+ page ebook, I lay out the exact
formula you need to go from wherever you are
with women, to the type of guy she'd ditch
her boyfriend for, in a minute.
And you can read free samples, at the link
below:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
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