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This may come as a shock to you, but I never get nervous
talking to new women, anymore.

I used to be TERRIFIED.

My palms would sweat, my heart would race...

And instead of talking to women, I'd try to "hide" myself
by "pulling in" my attention when I passed a pretty girl.

But today, I was jogging down by the Hudson river and I
saw a pretty Korean girl with a full chest.

(My personal favorite :-)

I looked disgusting. I was dripping sweat, dressed in
exercise clothes... And I've never been a looker to start
with.

So when I ran by her, I told myself, "Man, I can't talk to
her. I look like ****, and she's so pretty"

But something in my gut FORCED me to turn around and say
hi.

I left with her phone number. And we're going on a first
date tonight.

What changed? What made me go from terrified and anxious
to almost magically PULLED to talk to a beautiful woman?

Honestly, nothing more 'magic' than good, old fashioned
EXPERIENCE.

I've talked to thousands of women.

And I've gotten a few thousand phone numbers.

So talking to women is practically second nature by now.

>>And if you'd like to "cheat" off my experience... To learn
EVERYTHING it took me TEN YEARS to learn, in just a few hours,
then I highly recommend you claim your copy of The Attraction
Code. Read it once, and meeting women will become less of a
"chore" and more like an adventure:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>

Now, this may 'scare' you a bit. You may worry that talking
to millions of women, and "powering through it" is the ONLY
way to make meeting women EASY.

That's NOT the case!

Experience comes in THREE forms. And in this email, I'm
going to show you the three forms of experience, then teach
you how to use the two most POWERFUL forms to SHORTCUT
your learning curve.

Now, let's get started:

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FIRST TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
EXPERIENTIAL
*************************

This is the type of "learned" experience you're used to.

You do something. You learn from it.

And you get "experience"

It's tough and it takes TIME... But you DO learn, and
whatever you're doing DOES become easier the next time.

I like to think of this type of experience like a video game:

You talk to a girl, and you get some "experience points."

After awhile, you "level up" and learn some new "skills"

And eventually you'll learn "Stop Being Scared Of Meeting New
Women"...

... Then you stop being scared of meeting new women.

Pretty cool, right?

Trouble is, it takes a LOT of work because you need to put
yourself into scary, tough situations.

Situations that make you squirm... That make you nervous...
And that are UNCOMFORTABLE and TOUGH.

Now, if you're got leather skin, you could just walk up
to a few hundred women tomorrow... Say hi... And all of the
sudden, meeting women won't seem so tough.

But let's try to find an easier way...

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SECOND TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
LEARNED
*************************

This is the type of "experience" you get in school, where you
read books or take classes, and you "steal" a piece of someone
ELSES "experiential experience."

You listen to a few of their "Ah-Hah" moments and some of
them make sense to YOU.

Not all of them, but a damn high percentage.

That's why books, DVDs and CDs are STILL an effective way to
learn any skill - THOUSANDS OF YEARS after the written word
was invented.

And it's why - if you're stumbling through a mental "block"
when you're talking to women... Or you're searching for the
'right' words to say - Then Conversation CURE will help you
so well.

Because in this program, I teach you using audio, visual and
even kinesthetic (touch) tactics, so you get three times as
much Learned experience as you would with one channel,
alone. Learn more, below:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

But the draw-back with Learned experience is that you can
only get SO FAR with it.

Because in order to MASTER a skill, you'll eventually need
to put your own "spin" on things.

For instance:

* A professional baseball player knows the MECHANICS behind
his swing... And he also knows how to rotate HIS hips, so
HIS body gets the maximum power behind HIS swing

* A master painter knows how to paint a sunset... But what
makes it beautiful is HIS specific techniques with HIS
brush... And HIS choice of colors, that match HIS strong
points

* And how YOUR 'swagger' works is going to be DIFFERENT than
mine, no matter what. I can teach you the mechanics (even the
highest level ones)... But your experience is what will make
you a MASTER with women.

And banish your FEAR.

Which leads us to...

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THIRD TYPE OF EXPERIENCE:
SYNTHETIC
*************************

The "magic"

The best of both worlds.

"Synthetic" Experience.

I call it Synthetic because it combines the best of experiential
and learned... Without EITHER of the drawbacks.

And I also call it Synthetic because it simply does NOT
exist, in nature.

Let me explain:

Your mind is a wonderful and COMPLICATED piece of machinery.

And your imagination - that is, the part of your brain you
use for day dreams, creative thinking, spontaneity... and
ALL other ways of thinking that attract women...

... Is so powerful, you can 'trick' your mind into thinking
what you IMAGINED actually HAPPENED.

It takes a little practice, but it's the fun kind of practice.

In fact, here are the TWO kinds of Synthetic Experience
and how to use them:

#1) VISUALIZATION

Close your eyes.

Find a comfy place to rest.

And play a little movie in your head of how you'd like the
PERFECT pickup to go.

Imagine the little details and make the situation as real
as possible.

It may be a fuzzy movie the first time you try it, but you
can bet your ass by the end of the first month of watching
this movie every day, the details will be so clear... It's
almost like you're there in person.

Now, here's the secret:

MODIFY this movie, so it runs PERFECT.

You should see yourself saying the EXACT right thing.

You should imagine yourself feeling NO FEAR at all.

And you should imagine her giving you her phone number,
then following you home like a little puppy.

Let yourself enjoy it, and watch your mental movie once
per day.

I know it SOUNDS crazy, but you will suddenly find yourself
much, MUCH more comfortable around women.

In fact, you may even find yourself using lines you thought
of in your head... In real life.

It's extremely powerful, and RARELY used. So try it out
tonight.

But if you want a REAL kick-ass way to 'cheat' common
experience...

#2) COMBINATION

This is the "gold standard."

Combining both Learned experience and Synthetic experience.

Basically, go through whatever material I teach you and
use your imagination to picture yourself USING these
techniques... And doing them, PERFECTLY.

You'll learn the techniques FASTER.

You'll see your own SPIN on them.

And you will find yourself COMFORTABLE using them, even as
soon as the first time you use them.

PLUS - When you finally talk to a beautiful woman in real
life, she'll act exactly like I told you. And you'll react
like you pictured in your mind.

It basically makes meeting women easy as deja vu.

I highly suggest you Combination Synthetic Experience,
next time you learn ANYTHING. Dating or otherwise.

And if you'd like the quickest, easiest and most effective
set of techniques I know, you should check out The Attraction
Code.

It's got everything I've learned in 10 whole years of dating
HUNDREDS of women. And I'll help you cheat your own
learning curve, using the synthetic experience I just
taught you about.

You can become confident with women, and ditch your FEAR
forever, as soon as this afternoon:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you'd like to specialize in conversation, then I highly
recommend the Conversation CURE program. It's got my best
tips for talking to women, stuffed into one, easy to watch
package:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

Use it. Love it.

And I'll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. How's your sex life?

Could it be better?

Then check out DSP:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp



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