I hate when women play "hard to get"

Hate. Hate. HATE it.

Well, at least after I'm intrigued
because I can't have her...

And after I think about her at
least ten to twenty times per
day...

Finally, I start to hate her
after I decide I really like
her...

... Then I make my move, or let
her know, and she tells me I'm
"just not her type" and she
"doesn't want to ruin our
friendship"

THAT'S when I hate her playing
"hard to get"

But the brutal truth is:

Playing "Hard To Get WORKS"

And it works just as well for
men, as it does for women.

Because women are ADDICTED to
a little know human emotion
called "Intrigue"

"Intrigue" is the funny feeling
you have when someone stops to
take a drink mid-sentence...

... And you can't wait for them
to finish it.

And Intrigue is the reason
you still watch a TV show,
once it comes back from a
commercial break.

It's also the SECOND BIGGEST
emotion in romance novels.
Right behind sexual tension.

That's why women eat those tiny
books up by the MILLIONS per
year!

(You can learn how to master
both Intrigue AND Sexual Tension
in the Dominant Sexual Power
program, which you can learn
more about here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp)

Intrigue is also the main emotion
YOU feel, when a woman is playing
"hard to get"

Have you ever thought to yourself,
"I wonder what she's doing?"

or

"I wonder what it's like to be
with her?"

or even

"I wonder if she's hooking up
with some OTHER guy, right now?"

Those questions are ALL questions
you ask yourself when you're
INTRIGUED by another person.

And those are the questions you
can make HER think to herself,
if you learn how to play
"hard to get" the RIGHT way.

Using INTRIGUE.

So here's my three step guide
to creating Intrigue in any
woman you meet:

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HOW TO PLAY HARD TO GET
THE "RIGHT" WAY:
USING INTRIGUE
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STEP ONE: GET HER ATTENTION
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This part's the easiest and
the hardest, at the same time.

Because once you know what
you're doing, you will auto-
matically get women's
attention without even
realizing it.

(In fact, both step one and
two are extremely easy. And
you can master them in just
a few minutes per day)

The DIFFICULTY here is learning
how to get the RIGHT kind of
attention from a woman.

Because you can get two types
of attention from a woman:

1) The RIGHT kind.

She knows your name, and notices
your face.

She sees you as a potential
boyfriend.

And she's excited to be near you,
whenever you're around.

Or.. You can get...

2) The WRONG kind.

She either doesn't know who
you are (you mix into the
crowd too much)... Or she
doesn't even like you!

She sees you like a friend
or companion. Even worse,
she can't imagine you
having sex with her
at all!

And she'd rather blow you off
than miss a date with the guy
she just met last week.

HERE'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN
THE TWO TYPES OF ATTENTION:

Women notice the WRONG GUY
because of something he
DOES.

Women notice the RIGHT GUY
because of something he
IS.

Did you catch that? Let me
clarify quickly:

When you say something or
do something extreme, people
are going to notice you.

For example: If you pop a
balloon in a crowded room,
everyone's going to quickly
look your way.

And you're going to get lots
of attention.

Unfortunately, some of those
people are going to be scared.

Some are going to be pissed
off.

And nearly NO ONE will be MORE
interested in who you are
as a man.

So think back to a time when
you met a real, cool guy.

Did he say anything "profound"
to catch your attention?

Did he do something "unique"
or "crazy" in any way?

Probably not.

He probably "carried" himself
a certain way.

Which is just a fancy way of
saying:

"He was a confident guy who
made me want to know more
about him"

THIS is the attention you
want.

You want attention built on
WHO YOU ARE... Not WHAT YOU
DO.

I've devoted dozens of emails
to that topic. So you can
either sift through your
inbox for a few of them...

Or, you can wait a few weeks
until I write another newsletter
around this topic...

Or you can claim your copy
of The Attraction Code and
learn how this attractive
guy gets attention based on
who he IS, tonight.

Your choice. And you can
find The Attraction Code,
here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

Once you have the right
kind of attention, it's
time to move on to
step two...

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STEP TWO: GIVE HER A "HOOK"
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This is the same as saying,
"Make her INTERESTED as you"

It's just like fishing, which
is why I called it a 'hook':

First, you throw the bait to
the fish.

(In our case, you become an
attractive man with dominant
thoughts which cause her to
notice you the second she
sees you)

Second, she bites and gets
STUCK on the 'hook'

(In our case, you two start
talking and she gets 'hooked'
on a topic of conversation)

Third - and finally - You
do the intricate dance of
reeling 'her' in.

Let's talk about 'hooking'
for a second.

And let's drop the term
'hooking' once and for
all, because it only
serves it's purpose
to give you a visual
image.

A more accurate term would be
"generating Intrigue" or in
laymen's terms: "Intriguing"
her.

Now the wheels start turning,
don't they? I can practically
see you making the connection.

You start to feel the energy
and emotions you have associated
with the word "Intriguing"

And you should definitely notice
that these emotions are HIGHLY
sexual.

Because - and especially for women -
Something "intriguing" and mysterious
has a sexual allure to it.

So when you're intriguing to
a woman, you are ALSO sexually
attractive.

Now, why doesn't "playing hard
to get" work when you're trying
to be intriguing?

Simple:

Remember the two types of
attention we talked about
above? Great.

Then you see how ACTING intriguing
gets you WORSE ATTENTION than
BEING intriguing.

It's a very subtle difference,
so I'll spell it out in simpler
terms:

When you DO or SAY something
with your GOAL to intrigue her,
she'll notice and think that
you're trying to hard.

But when you say something
RELATED TO THE CONVERSATION
that just so happens to be
Intriguing, she'll be HOOKED,
quickly.

You can do this by using "intriguing
words" or "double entendres"

Words like "Wet, Slippery, Moist,
Thrust"... And any other word
that has a sexual meaning in
her mind.

ALSO - You can leave half of the
details out of a story.

For instance, if she asks about
your day, you can either tell her:

"It was great. I went to work, where
Tony was acting like an idiot. He
got mad at our boss so he THREW
everything off of his desk"

... Which tells her the whole story...

...Or, you could say:

"You'll never believe it. Tony
got mad and THREW everything off
of his desk!"

Which uses the same words, but
leaves out some of the details.

I can promise the first words
out of her mouth will be
either:

"What?"

"Why?"

"What happened?"

or

"Tell me more"

Because she's HOOKED on that
story.

She wants to know more.

And she won't stop asking
you questions until she has
the full story in her mind.

When you learn how to master
these "Intriguing" topics,
no woman will be able to
get enough of you.

Especially when you flow
the Intrigue right into...

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STEP THREE: PULL IT AWAY
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Because this is the 'secret
sauce' even most guys who
are AMAZING with women
are missing.

This is where the "hard"
in "hard to get" gets it's
meaning.

Because right after you
get her hooked, throw a
little sentence out there,
which tells her you're not
going to "give up the goods"

Basically let her know you
may not tell her the whole
story.

This works on the same principle
you use to tease children:

* Show her something she
wants

* Take it away from her,
as soon as she wants it

Now, most guys screw this up
because they don't know how
to BE something she wants.

And you handle that with DOMINANCE,
with INTRIGUE, with SEXUAL TENSION
and with everything I teach you
in my programs and newsletters.

The real secret is how to gently
'pull away' once you've got her.

Here's what you do:

First, get her hooked.

We'll use our previous example:

"You wouldn't believe it. Tony
got mad and THREW everything
off of his desk"

Second, she says something like:

"Wow, what happened?"

Third, you wait a little pause
(for dramatic effect, obviously ;)

And then you tell her something
like this:

"It was so sudden. You wouldn't
believe me if I told you"

or

"Ah, never mind. You probably
don't want to hear it, anyways"

These will drive her WILD!

And they're both examples of
"pulling the bait away"

Each is an example of one of
my two favorite techniques:

1) ESCALATING THE INTRIGUE

and

2) PULLING AWAY THE INTRIGUE

Both work like gangbusters.

And I'm going to devote a
future email newsletter to
10 ways you can use them
in your daily conversations
with women.

If you want to learn a few
dozen of them, right now,
then I suggest you check
out Dominant Sexual Power.

Make sure you pay CLOSE attention
to the section on INTRIGUE, because
that's exactly what we're talking
about, today.

(And take notes on SEXUAL TENSION,
too. You can ALWAYS use more of it)

You can find that program here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

And if you'd like to focus on
the FIRST step of being hard to
get: BEING an intriguing guy,
then I recommend you read
The Attraction Code.

In fact, you'll get the most out
of Chapter's 3 and 4, because
they teach you techniques to
USE it in your daily life.

(I forget what page it's on,
but the 4EP model will work
perfect for you)

Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

***HERE'S WHAT TO DO TODAY***

1) Get her attention by BEING
Intriguing, not SAYING or DOING
something special.

(Or you'll get the WRONG kind
of attention)

2) Give her a "hook" to bite
down on, by being an Intriguing
guy.

3) Then give it a pull, by
either:

a) Escalating the Intrigue
or
b) Pulling the Intrigue away

4) Have her eating out of
the palm of your hand :-)

Make sure you don't over do it,
though.

"Hard to get" is kind of like
catnip for cats:

Women LOVE it. Can't get enough
of it, in small doses.

But too much and she grows numb,
then it never works again.

So be smart about it.