I don't date anymore...

I gave up.

The very word "date" makes me cringe.

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Here's why...

I finally realized, after literally
hundreds of failed dates, what women
really want when they go on a "date"
with a guy.

And it's not what most guys think - in
fact, they don't even want a "date."

Now of course, women say all kinds of
things about what they want...and then
when the guy tries to give it to her, it
falls flat.

You see, women are extremely unaware of
their own inner processes - you can't
listen to them literally.

When women say they want something, I
usually laugh, because it usually sounds
so ridiculous to me now.

First of all, women will say they want a
nice guy, but only fall for loser jerks.

Or they'll say they want to be respected
and treated like a lady, but can only
have an orgasm when they are manhandled
and bent over.

Or they'll say they want to be taken out
and wined and dined, when nothing could
be further from the truth.

Let me ask you a question.

How many times have you been confused by
what women say they want, compared to
what they respond to?

For me it's been A LOT.

In fact, I attribute most of my early
struggles to confusion, created by
women!

That's why I stopped listening to women
for awhile, and decided to figure it out
on my own.

Now when women say things like "I want
to be swept off my feet" or "I want a
man who knows what he wants" I
UNDERSTAND.

But it's still funny, because I know
that...

a) she doesn't know what she means
b) she thinks she's helping, but really
she's only confusing guys

Now that I think about it, if women
could clearly explain what they need,
I'd be out of a job!

So I guess I can't be mad about it :)

And hey, if I wasn't so ignorant to
begin with, I wouldn't have had the
motivation to become a master.

I mean let's face it...I know a LOT more
than the average guy.

In fact, so do you, just from reading
these newsletters.

For instance, the average guy thinks
that the way to take a woman out on a
date is by spending a lot of money and
impressing her.

This SUCKS for guys...for two reasons.

First, you are spending your hard-earned
money on a woman who hasn't done
anything for you yet!

Second, you are setting a bad precedence
where you make effort in exchange for
sex.

Bad bad bad.

The irony here is that women are MORE
likely to have sex with you, the less
money you spend - but it's all about how
you do it.

Also, women can tell when you are trying
to impress them.

It's OBVIOUS.

I mean think about it - can't you tell
when a guy is trying to impress you?

Of course - it's easy.

And as a guy, you might think, "oh
that's OK - it just means he likes me
and respects my opinion."

You might end up being friends with the
guy.

But to a woman, a man trying to impress
her is about the most unattractive,
repulsive thing he can do.

And yet what does every guy try to do?

Impress women!

Society - the media especially, sends us
the message that the way to attract a
woman is by showering her with praise
and trying to make her like you by
impressing her.

It just doesn't work that way.

Look deeper...

You can't value a person if they value
you more.

Think about it - if someone sees you as
higher than themselves, you won't feel
the urge to keep them in your life.

You'll treat them as lower than you -
and it's all because they've treated you
as higher.

They did it to themselves.

And this is exactly what guys do, which
is why it can seem so difficult just to
attract and sleep with women!

A woman CANNOT feel attracted to a man
who sees himself as lower than her.

Why would a woman want to sleep with a
guy who was doing worse than her?

Sympathy?

Kindness?

C'mon...she's risking pregnancy,
biologically speaking.

She needs to feel like she's getting
good genes - that she's moving up the
ladder so to speak.

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"worth the investment" with your WORDS!

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Now you can understand this rationally
when I say it to you.

But you have old habits that have become
ingrained into you.

So when you go out on a date, those old
mental habits creep right in:

"What activity should we do so that
she'll be impressed?"

"Do I have enough money to spend? How
much should I spend on her?"

"What should I talk about?"

And then on the date, you're thinking,

"Is she having fun?"

"Does she like me?"

"Did I say the wrong thing?"

"Will she give me a goodnight kiss? How
should I make my move?"

Yuck.

Let me give you my mindset for dates.

First, I want to hang out with her -
casually, like I would with a friend.

Maybe meet at a local pub for a couple
rounds of beer, or get some late night
grub at my favorite hot dog shack, or
play frisbee in the park.

Stuff I'd do with a buddy.

Now I know what you're thinking - what
about romance?

Well romance is not about spending a lot
of money at some fancy French
restaurant, and drinking champagne in a
limousine.

Romance is about those little magical
moments that arise when two people are
comfortable with each other, in the
moment, when all the pressure's gone.

Memorize that.

So when HANG OUT, casually, with no
pressure or pretensions...just you and
her having a fun, relaxed time, all
kinds of funny, quirky, cute romantic
moments will be FREE to come about.

You can't force real romance.

My second mindset for when I hang out
with a woman, is

"Do I want to sleep with her?"

Seriously.

I've slept with so many good-looking
women that turned out to not be worth
the effort.

I've gone on dates, spent money, spent
time, put up with all sorts of games,
only to later find out that the woman is
NOT fun, NOT interesting, and NOT good
in bed.

So I really am screening.

But in a fun, relaxed way - because the
only way I can decide if I really like a
woman is if she is being herself.

So I want the date to be pressure-free -
no fancy dinner across-table interviews.

No resume spewing.

No attempts to impress each other (okay
she can try to impress me - that's fine
:)

And this is the mindset of a natural.

You see, naturals - the guys you watch
get all the women and you can't figure
out how - don't know a lot of theory or
psychology.

They have deep understandings; they have
beliefs that fuel their game.

And these beliefs lead to very simple
mindsets for how they deal with women.

Here are a couple I've heard from some
of the best naturals out there:

"I just show her I'm interested."

"I say the one thing that will shock her
the most - the thing she's least
expecting."

"I let her know I'm HER trophy."

"No apologies - I do me all the way."

That's IT!

No techniques or routines or complex
strategies or methods.

Just natural game fueled by beliefs...

And beliefs are nothing more than
understanding, and mental habit.

I want you to get there yourself!

Stop listening to other guys brag about
their successes.

Make your own stories, and have the
success you deserve.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your friend,

Vin

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