Picture this scenario:

You've been dating a girl for
three months now.

When you met her, things were hot,
heavy and passionate.

You couldn't get enough of each other,
and you couldn't keep your hands off
of her.

The sex was intense.

She gave you lots of affection.

You went to sleep with her in your
arms and a smile on your face.

Now, it's three months later.

The attraction has died down.

The passion isn't there and your
sexual "fire" has dimmed down to
barely a fluttering spark.

In fact, you haven't been intimate
with your woman for two whole weeks.

And there's no sign of sexual
satisfaction in the near future,
either.

What went wrong?

How can you fix it?

And WHO HAS TO CHANGE?
You... or her?

In this email, I'm going to teach
you the 3 main reasons women go
"stale" in relationships.

You'll learn how to avoid this
pitfalls, and a few techniques
to rekindle the spark of attraction,
even when it's on the verge of
being blown out.

Best of all - If you save this email
and keep it's lessons for future use
- You'll never have to worry about
your girlfriend cheating or wandering
to another man for love.

So pay close attention.

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Today's email was inspired by this
question from a reader - Just like you.

If you'd like to get your question
answered, send me an email:
askvin@vindicarlo.com

I check it personally once per day,
and I try to answer every question.

Sometimes it's personal, from me to
you. And sometimes I think your question
can help HUNDREDS of others.

Like this one, below:

***QUESTION AND SUCCESS STORY FROM
A READER***

"Hey Vin,

Thanks for the great emails, I've been
reading them every day for the last
four months and I've gotten better
and better with women. It's insane.

I met this awesome blonde girl with
great **** and an amazing personality.
She's funny, intelligent and she's
one of those quality girls you don't
meet in a bar or club.

I started talking to her in a Starbucks
after you told me that coffee shops were
a great place to meet women. She was
reading a book so I walked up to her
and asked her how she liked it.

It was really simple, just like you
said and we had a conversation for
about twenty minutes. I got her phone
number and then we went on a few dates.

Well, we've been dating for a few
months now and things are going
downhill. I don't know where I went
wrong. We haven't had sex in forever
and she doesn't really seem to be
into me anymore.

I mean, she barely returns my calls
or texts and she doesn't seem to be
excited by me when I'm around.

Where did I go wrong? Did I lose the
spark? She's kind of focused super
hard on her job and school so maybe
she's just focused I guess? What do
I do?

I really like this girl and I don't
want to lose her for good so help
me out Vin! I really need some
advice!

- Joey Q., Colorado"

>>> Hey Joey,

Thanks for the kind words about
the emails :-)

You'd be surprised how many emails
I get per day that are success
stories from the techniques in
these emails ALONE.

Nevermind the awesome successes
guys who read The Attraction Code
and watch other programs get.

It just goes to show you that
it's easy to help people,
if you're really devoted
to giving away great
information.

Anyways, let's move on to
your situation...

On one hand, I'm happy for you.

You managed to meet a great girl,
who seems like a great fit for you.

After all, you two have been
dating for three months.

Three whole months!

There was a time in my life when
three whole weeks was a long
relationship.

And there were times in my life
where three whole minutes was
all the time I could force a
girl to talk to me.

So congrats, big time.

Now let's get into your
concerns...

You say your girl just isn't
that passionate any more.

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WAYS YOU KNOW SHE'S READY
TO LEAVE NUMBER ONE:
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And your sex life has pretty
much dried up.

I've noticed women love to
control the sex in order to
manipulate men into behaving
the way she wants you to.

(Oddly enough, changing your
behavior to make her happy
will make her LESS attracted
to you. So she's really
shooting herself in the
foot)

The best way to handle
her controlling sex is
to rekindle the passion
in your romance.

Use lots of sexual tension
techniques.

Use lots of sensual languaging.

And most of all, be VERY dominant
with her - Especially in bed.

Because she's losing attraction
for you because SHE'S now the
one in control.

And no woman can feel hot for
a guy who lets her take control.

In - or out - Of bed.

Obviously, you can't rape her
or force her to do anything
she doesn't want to do.

But you can get her very aroused
hot and heavy for you. In fact,
check out DSP for some amazing
techniques that are too raw
to write about here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

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WAYS YOU KNOW SHE'S READY
TO LEAVE NUMBER TWO:
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And even worse, she's started
to pull away from you, big time.

She's stopped picking up your calls
and returning your texts.

Even though you're officially dating!

Why the hell would she do that?
Simple:

She feels like YOU'RE chasing
and SHE'S leading.

The shift in power is all out of
whack, and you need to fix it
before she will love you again.

It's pretty simple, as far as
phone and text stuff, though.

Just make sure she texts and calls
you more than you text and call
her.

There are a lot of ways to "bait"
her into this. Especially by
sending her texts with tons
of Intrigue.

Texts like:

"OMG I just saw you twin"

or

"You'll never believe this..."

even

"lol No u didn't!"

Anything that gets her texting
you back.

Then just make sure she's the
one who sends the last text.

And you're all gravy.

In the grand scheme of things
this won't give you a HUGE
boost in dominance.

But where you're at, every little
bit counts.

Finally...

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WAYS YOU KNOW SHE'S READY
TO LEAVE NUMBER THREE:
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She focused on things like work
and school, and you immediately
thought it had something to do
with you screwing up.

Hey, sometimes work is just work.

Sometimes school is just school.

And if you're relaxed about it,
they won't turn into anything
bigger.

But if you get clingy and needy
when she starts to pull away,
she knows she's got you by
the balls.

And trust me - She's not letting
up on the vice grip any time
soon.

So this mistake is already in
the past.

Hindsight is 20/20, right?

But here's how you can keep
your woman from hooking you
by the gonads in the future:

When she needs space, give
her space!

It ain't rocket science, but
most men screw this up big
time.

ESPECIALLY in new relationships,
where the romance is the most
fragile.

You get "into" a girl.

The romance is hot and passionate.

And then she starts to pull away.

She needs space.

You either:

a) Give it to her

or

b) Try to figure out where YOU
went wrong

... And your choice, even if it's
only a split second long, will
change the relationship forever.

Because as soon as you get needy,
she has all the power.

And trust me, she'll abuse it
until your relationship pans
out like this situation did,
today.

She'll start withholding sex,
because she feels her *****
is more valuable than your
dick.

She'll start pulling away emotionally
because she thinks you can't handle
her need for space.

She'll start giving orders and
commands instead of helping out
with YOUR vision, because she senses
your lack of dominance in the
relationship.

And no matter what happens, you're
in for a bumpy ride.

Most of the time, you're on a straight
road to relationship disaster.

Unfortunately, there's only one
way to right this type of mistake.

And that's to never make it in
the first place!

So before you chase after ANY woman,
ask yourself one thing:

"Am I Chasing, Or Am I Leading?"

If you're not leading, don't DO it,
don't SAY it, don't even THINK
about it... Because it's the
wrong move to make.

Instead, keep thinking of possible
ways to handle that situation until
you're LEADING - Not following.

You'll be more dominant in your
relationship, she'll respect you
more, your sex will stay passionate
and never again will you suffer
through the "****** relationship
blues"

Now, if you want more information
about Dominance - including a step-by-
step "how to" manual for getting your
dating life on track - Check out
The Attraction Code:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you want the system I designed
to get back at MY ex-gf, after this same
situation happened to me, check out the
Dominant Sexual Power program, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

***HERE'S WHAT TO DO, TODAY***

1) Take back you DOMINANCE.

Lead, don't follow.

2) Use SEXUAL TENSION to re-spark
her sexual attraction for you.

So the sex is PASSIONATE again.

3) Ask yourself, "Am I CHASING
Or Am I LEADING?"

And never do anything that makes
you chase, if you can possibly
think of something that helps
you lead.