In this email, I'm going to share the top 3
reasons women like jerks (and how to turn the
tables in YOUR favor)...

... Plus, I'll teach you a never-fail first line
you can say to a woman you meet at a Starbucks
or other coffee shop.

So let's get started:

***QUESTION FROM READER***

"Hey Vin,

I've been meaning to write you for awhile now.
I'm a student going to college and the girls here
are beautiful, but I don't know how to approach!

I always see this cute little blond girl getting
coffee ahead of me at the school coffee house and
I want to talk to her but I never know what to say.

I love your emails, and I read them everyday but
I can't help thinking college is different and this
girl is BEAUTIFUL, so it freaks me out!! Got any
advice?

Thanks a ton!

- Peter K., NY"

>>> Hey Peter,

College can be either the "promised land" or just
another frustrating year, when it comes to meeting
women.

I had always seen videos of Girls Gone Wild, and
heard about wild sex parties... So when I got to
school, and didn't hook up with a girl until my
THIRD year there, I started to feel "lost."

I felt like I didn't know what to do. And I felt like
every other guy knew something about meeting women
I didn't.

But here's the REAL secret of college life:

Most Guys Aren't Getting Laid, Either!

It seems counter-intuitive, but there are a LOT
of frustrated men walking around college campuses.

The reason college gets it's reputation, is because
women are just finding their sexuality. And CERTAIN
men sleep with almost ALL the women.

In fact, roughly 10% of men at college campuses -
and this carries over to the rest of the world -
Can practically walk out their front door, look
at a woman they want, talk to her like they're
old friends chatting...

... Then bring her home, that same day.

Sounds crazy, but it's the absolute truth, and I
wouldn't have believed it myself if I hadn't seen
it with my own two eyes.

What do these guys have, that you don't?

And how can YOU have this level of success with
women?

Well first, you need to have a basic hold on your
conversation skills. You need to ESPECIALLY know
how to talk to WOMEN.

Including, the first line to say... How to avoid
asking her too many questions... How to instantly
recover from a "flubbed" line... And tons more.

Now you can either master talking to women by racking
up HUGE amounts of real-life experience... or...
You can get your hands on the Conversation CURE
program, and short-cut the whole process.

You can find out more details, here:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

As far as meeting girls in a Starbucks, or other coffee
shop, it's QUITE easy.

In fact, my girlfriends and their friends have started
calling Starbucks "the new bar", because they practically
ALWAYS get hit on their.

So when they get a coffee, secretly, she's looking to
meet YOU.

(I remember way back before Starbucks, and it almost seems
WEIRD picking up a girl in a Dunkin Donuts... That just
me? ;-)

Here's what you say:

"I noticed you *DOING WHAT SHE'S DOING*, and you *WHAT
YOU NOTICED ABOUT HER*, so I HAD to come talk to you"

Here's an example:

"I noticed you READING THAT BOOK, and you looked SO
PASSIONATE ABOUT IT, that I HAD to come talk to you"

No matter how you fill in the blanks, it's going to
sound spontaneous, and like an awesome compliment.

She'll love it, I promise.

(By the way, if you would like YOUR question answered
by me, personally, fire me an email to askvin@vindicarlo.com
I personally check that address daily, and I sometimes
select your questions to help people, worldwide)

Next up...


***QUESTION FROM A READER***

"I'm sick of this ****!

I've been dating this girl for like three months now,
and last night she broke up with me for no reason!
Well, she's going to get back together with her
LOSER ex-boyfriend, but the guy's a jerk!

Why do women get together with jerks? Is it some
part of her that WANTS to be hurt? It just frustrates
the hell out of me because I know I'd be the better
choice for her. AHHH! I'm so pissed off...

Anyways Vin, help me out man. Love your stuff
and The Attraction Code got me this girl in
the first place. What did I miss that drove
her away?!

- P., Denver, CO."

>>> Hey P,

Break-ups are rough.

When a man and a woman who were into each other split up,
SOMEONE'S going to go through tough feelings.

Usually what happens is this:

1) You start out in love

2) She slowly notices something about you that secretly
reveals you lack a little dominance

3) She slowly falls out of love

4) Break-up

And the worst part is, women naturally go from GOOD relationships
to AWFUL ones. Because she wants to go from the guy she JUST
dated, to a guy who's the EXACT opposite.

So her dating some jerk ex-boyfriend lets me know that
she wanted a few EXTRA things from YOU, in your
relationship.

Nothing major, and I discuss them all in The Attraction
Code. The danger is just that after three months, you
may have decided:

"Oh, she's attracted, so I can slack off and not keep
being confident, dominant and exciting"

Unfortunately - To KEEP a woman, you've got to KEEP being
confident, dominant and exciting.

The GOOD part is, being confident, dominant and exciting is
empowering, fun and GOOD for you as a man.

(I'm addicted to lists of three. Blame it on my physics major)

I remember when my first wife broke up with me.

I was SHATTERED, emotionally.

I had no clue what I did wrong, and I felt like the biggest
loser in the whole world. Especially because she ran off
with a guy who probably made her life MISERABLE in the
long run.

But looking back on it, I just STOPPED showing the three
traits girls LOVE in jerks, and she left me for it. I vowed
never to screw that up again, so even when I was living in
the back of a cleaning van...

... because I CONSTANTLY showed these three traits...

... I had up to 9 girlfriends at one time. All of them loved
me for who I was. And the relationships - and the sex -
Couldn't have been better.

Here are the three, and how to use them - EFFECTIVELY:

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FIRST REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
CONFIDENCE
**********************************

Confidence is key.

You've heard this OVER and OVER again, so I won't
bore you with the details.

Women like guys who are "going places" and can protect
her.

Confidence shows her you're BOTH "going places" and can
protect her. So it's a no-brainer that she's attracted
to confident guys.

Confidence also shows up when a guy is SUCCESSFUL at
SOMETHING in his life. So she knows when she dates a
confident guy, that he's not just another dude with
no life plan or passion.

Because of that, there's an EASY way to inject confidence
into your everyday attitude:

Find Your Passion... And Practice It, Daily

Figure out what you're passionate about, and spend even
just an hour a day working towards MASTERY on that topic.

So say your passion is rock-climbing. (I've got a friend
who's a MONKEY in the boulder room)

Spend an hour per day climbing rocks. Hell, it's great
exercise, so you can just replace your gym hour with your
rock-climbing hour, and you're all set!

Or if your passion is chess, find a time you would normally
read a book, and play a few games on the computer or with
a friend.

It's an easy excuse to be semi-social, and it's GREAT
for your puzzle-solving skills.

THE WAY THIS IMPROVES YOUR CONFIDENCE: Is by giving you
an "area of expertise", where you are an AUTHORITY on
a certain subject.

So when you meet someone, you'll subconsciously KNOW more
about them on some, single topic. At minimum.

That way, you can talk to them as EQUALS - with CONFIDENCE -
Instead of always feeling "lower" or "less able" than
another person.

Now you may want to pick rock-climbing over chess, because...

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SECOND REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
EXCITEMENT
**********************************

Women love excitement.

Think about the shows she watches, the movies she buys, the
books she reads...

They're all full of 1) Sex and 2) Excitement.

So you should bring 1) sex and 2) Excitement into her life.

Thankfully, in every program I've ever designed, from The
Attraction Code (http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php)
to NoFlakes! (http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live), I show you
exactly how to bring SEX into her life.

Here are two great tips, for excitement:

A) Be Unpredictable.

And this goes hand-in-hand with living in the moment,
and then being spontaneous.

Take random trips with her. Make love on the kitchen table.
Or grab her hand, grab your wallet and take a random road
trip for the weekend - To a destination NEITHER or you
knows.

These will all BOOST your excitement level to her, and
make you VERY attractive.

B) Don't Toe The "Politically Correct" Line.

Voice your thoughts and opinions FULLY.

Say what you think.

And don't be afraid to offend her or anyone else,
for that matter.

Not only does this show a TON of dominance (Because you
don't care if they disapprove)...

... This also shows her you can be exciting, because
you'll stick to your guns when everyone else is being
shy and backing down.

You saying what's on your mind liberates HER to do
the same.

And she'll love you for it.

But no matter how exciting you are, don't forget...

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THIRD REASON WHY WOMEN LIKE JERKS:
DOMINANCE
**********************************

Jerks are dominant sonnuvabitches.

They take what they want, when they want it...

If he wants sex with her, he'll make it rough, passionate
and exciting...

And as far as he's concerned, the rest of the world is
his playground.

You could learn a thing or two.

Now, I'm not saying you should stop caring what other people
think, entirely... And you SHOULDN'T put your girlfriend
down in public, or make her feel bad about herself...

But being DOMINANT, and IN CONTROL of your life and the
people around you is INSANELY attractive to a woman.

In fact, it's THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAIT you can have as
a man, because she's biologically built to sleep with
a dominant man and raise dominant babies.

And it's also the FIRST TRAIT men lose, when they hop
into relationships.

You start letting her make most of the decisions...

You let her choose things for you...

And you silence your own opinions to avoid fights or
conflict...

Unfortunately, by doing the three things above, you also
TURN OFF your dominance, and therefore silence her attraction
for you.

So she's turned OFF by you. And leaving you is a MUST
not an option.

Thankfully, there are THOUSANDS of ways to show her
you're a dominant man.

And I know from experience that 90% of relationships
are able to be saved, if you turn up your dominance.
I've been there, and seen it happen for myself and
HUNDREDS of other men.

So if you think your dominance is an issue in YOUR relationship,
I highly recommend you claim a copy of The Attraction Code.

In it, I summarize EVERYTHING I've learned in over ten years
learning about and teaching men how to pick up women.
Including my most powerful tips, tricks and techniques
to keep your dominance HIGH in a relationship.

You can check out the details, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And I'll talk to you soon.

Your Friend,

- Vin

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