Most women can rule you out
seconds BEFORE you ever open
your mouth to talk to her.

It's not magic.

It's not women's 'intuition'

And it's not because you're
giving off some secret, powerful
"rejection signals" - ie. the
Law of Attraction, either.

She's simply a better judge
of body language than 99% of
men - including me and you.

Think about it:

Her entire life, she's read
magazines such as Cosmopolitan
(with articles about body
language twice per month)

She's watched movies where
fearless heroines nit-pick
tiny details in men, and
accurately judge his
character in seconds.

And her mom (and her grandma
before her) passed what SHE
learned down, and down, and
down through the generations.

So in today's day and age,
women are practically
"mind readers" when it
comes to men.

(Something our daily sitcoms
never let you forget)

Thats why, in this email, you'll
learn the Top 5 Body Language
MISTAKES Most Men Make, and
you'll discover how to fix
them in seconds.

So she can't judge you before
you start talking and she
gets to KNOW you.

>> If you want perfect body language,
you should know that perfect POSTURE
kills your chances with women.

I explain one reason why, below, and
I've packed my favorite body language
tips into The Attraction Code.

Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>

I got today's email idea from
Jack's email, which you can
read below.

And if YOU want your question
answered, simply send it to
askvin@vindicarlo.com

I check that email address personally,
once per day.

***QUESTION AND SUCCESS STORY
FROM A READER***

"Hey Vin,

This is the first time I've done
this but I might as well tell
somebody about my troubles.

I think I emailed you because I'm
a huge fan of The Red Pill man.
It's really bumped up my self
confidence and sense of worth
and I think women can really
tell.

I kinda want to ask you a question
about that in a bit but let me
tell you this story first.

I was out shopping the other day
and saw this beautiful woman.
She was a total MILF too. I'm
already over 30 so it's weird
to say that but she was something
else.

Amazing curves in all the right
places and a smile to die for.

Anyways I walked up to her and
started talking just by introducing
myself to her and whatever.

We chit chatted, then I started
threading with her like you
taught me in your emails.

After a few minutes I got her
phone number by saying "I really
like talking with you, can we
talk later?" Then she gave it
to me.

(I was REALLY excited about
that. I've never wanted a
woman's phone number that
bad in my entire life!)

Btw - Do you think I said the
right thing? I know it's not
exactly what you recommend
but I was so nervous lol.

I plan on texting her tonight
just like you say in the NoFlakes
bonus book but I have a quick
question first.

What do you think made her
like me? Like, I don't think
I was super interesting or
cool.

I seem to have more success with
your techniques when I just relax
and be myself. Especially when
the conversations aren't that
interesting.

I just get a really relaxed
feeling in my chest and my
upper back and neck, and
women seem to react to me
COMPLETELY different when
it happens.

So I was wondering if there's
something to that, or is it
all in my head?

Anyways Vin, thanks a whole ton
for even reading this and I'm
going to go text her now.

Wish me luck!

- Jack, Pensacola, FL."

>> Hey Jack,

Good luck :-)

And yes, you did great by
asking for her phone number.

In fact, the fact that you
asked for her phone number
is a TON more important than
what you said.

(Like you were talking about
- The FEELING trumps EXECUTION
99% of the time)

Send her ANYTHING in NoFlakes
and I can promise you an amazing
first date.

So let's dig down into your
question:

You phrased it,

"I seem to have more success with
your techniques when I just relax
and be myself. Especially when
the conversations aren't that
interesting."

And I think you hit the nail
right on the head, there.

Here's why:

Men are trained to look for beautiful
women.

And women are trained to look for
confident men.

Being relaxed in a stressful
situation shows a lot of
confidence.

(And even a woman knows that
talking to strangers is more
than a little stressful)

So when she sees you being relaxed
and at ease, she instantly gets
a little more attracted to you.

But it's not like she can look
at you and SEE "relaxation" or
"confidence", right? Of course
not!

So what is she actually looking
at?

The answer is:

YOUR BODY LANGUAGE

They didn't name it body LANGUAGE
for nothing.

Because your entire body is "speaking"
to her, while you two are chatting
with your lips.

Your hands gestures are telling
her how you feel about the story
you're telling...

The way you stand lets her know
if you're comfortable being in
'her space'...

And whether or not you hold onto
"tension" while you two are talking
clues her in to your level of
confidence and RELAXATION
around her.

So what are the EXACT cues she's
looking for?

You'll never know.

Because every woman is different,
and your body is a BIG place, with
lots of little tension points
and involuntary movements.

And if you're constantly 'monitoring'
your body language, you'll come across
insecure and shy!

So I prefer to - and I highly recommend
you get in the habit of - watch(ing)
out for a few bad body language
habits.

In fact, there are 5 "killers"
you'll see every time a man
talks to a woman.

Here they are, along with step-by-step
solutions to each:

>> And if how you stand isn't a problem
for you, because WHAT YOU SAY has you
stumped, I also highly recommend the
Conversation CURE program.

It's packed with tips, tricks and
techniques designed to take the sting
out of talking to women, by making
"getting rejected by her" nearly
impossible, and deleting awkward
silences - for GOOD!

Best of all - It's practically a
steal. So check it out:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
>>

**************************
DICARLO COACHING PRESENTS:
THE TOP 5 MOST DANGEROUS
BODY LANGUAGE !!MISTAKES!!
**************************

(getting fancy with the
list names, lately :-)


*****************************
BIG BODY LANGUAGE MISTAKE #1:
PUFFING YOUR CHEST OUT
*****************************

From cartoons to real-life movies,
every cocky sonuvabitch has his
chest puffed out with pride.

And he always gets the girls!

So pushing your chest out may
seem like a good way to project
confidence to women.

In fact, many posture coaches
and even dating 'experts' tell
you to push your chest out as
far as possible to give an
intimidating presence.

Well, it works.

But they missed one, little
point:

An Intimidating Presence Will
SCARE HER OFF!

You want to seem friendly,
charming and warm.

Not intimidating, harsh
or cold!

And the best way to do this
is to relax, as much as possible.

Yes, perfect posture makes
your chest pop out a bit.

And yes, it's a good idea
to seem confident and not
slump over.

But relaxed and happy trumps
puffed up and proud 99 times
out of 100.

(And the last guy probably was
rich out of his mind)

So make sure you focus on
being relaxed and at ease,
instead of "confident" or
"tough"

But don't use it as an
excuse to...

*****************************
BIG BODY LANGUAGE MISTAKE #2:
HANDS IN YOUR POCKETS
*****************************

Shy little kids put their
hands in their pockets.

But so did James Dean.

And many of our world-leaders
tuck their hands into their
pockets or waist bands.

So obviously, it can't hurt,
right?

Wrong.

By itself, having your hands
in your pockets is no big
deal.

Sometimes you need to find
an item from your pocket.

And sometimes your hands are
just plain cold.

But the signals it gives a
woman are totally different.

For example:

Most pictures of a famous
actor or president that show
his hands in his pockets were
taken in a situation where he
felt uncomfortable or out of
his element.

In fact, by hiding our hands,
we're secretly telling the
world either:

"Don't worry! I'm no threat!
I've tucked my hands away"

or

"I'm going to make myself look
smaller, so I don't seem like
a threat to you"

Both of these signals make you
feel more comfortable in stressful
situations.

And BOTH are messages you
DON'T want to send to women.

So simply let your hands
swing by your sides.

It may be uncomfortable for just
a few minutes to start, but you'll
see women reacting differently

- BETTER -

To you, not even a few seconds
later.

>> And if you want a 'magic pill'
confidence booster, try The Red Pill
program.

It's chock full of the top ideas
I've discovered for powering up
your self-confidence.

And you tell ME what you should
pay for it, at the link below:

http://www.GetTheRedPill.com
>>

*****************************
BIG BODY LANGUAGE MISTAKE #3:
POOR EYE CONTACT
*****************************

This is a biggie.

And it's super-common, so you
know how important it is.

People trust people who look
them in the eyes.

And for a woman to be aroused
around you, she needs to trust
you.

So giving her solid eye contact
is CRUCIAL to turning her on.

Watching her eyes 85% of the
time when you're talking or
listening... And 50% of the
time while you two are
relaxing together should
do the trick.

(As for guys who are trying
to 'stare you down' to intimidate
you, relax.

Keep the same rules, and you'll
not only FEEL better, you'll
also look like the guy in
control.

While he stares you down
and looks both creepy and
awkward)

Now, while your eyes are on
hers, she's also checking out...

*****************************
BIG BODY LANGUAGE MISTAKE #4:
WHERE & HOW YOU STAND
*****************************

This is CRUCIAL.

And it's a little fact you've
probably looked over:

Where You Place Your Feet
MATTERS

And women can learn a lot about
you, from it.

For instance, if you're leaning
back on your back foot, and
you're turned away from her,
she subconsciously knows you
want to run away or escape.

And if your feet are too close
together, she sees that you're
uncomfortable taking up other
people's space.

So what's the perfect "foot
distance"?

And where do you stand so you're
close enough to be talking to
her intimately, without
"invading her space"?

Follow this one rule of thumb
and you'll never make a mistake:

Stand with your feet roughly
shoulder width apart.

(So you've got a solid base
to stand on, but you're not
being TOO cocky)

(SIDENOTE: This will help you
FEEL more confident, too)

And stand just close enough to
her to feel her body heat.

This is roughly 2 to 2.5 feet
away from her.

You'll be close enough to her
to turn her on with your
presence, and far enough
away that she feels she
can escape if she
needs to.

(This is important for a
woman, because it makes
her feel safe.

And we talked about how
important that is, at
the start of this email)

Where you stand is important...

Your eye contact is important...

How you hold your hands is
important...

... But NOTHING is more
important than avoiding
this next big blunder:

*****************************
BIG BODY LANGUAGE MISTAKE #5:
BEING STIFFER THAN A STICK
*****************************

If you're not relaxed,
she won't be, either.

And if she can't relax,
she can't do ANY of the
following:

1) She Can't Get Aroused

So she can't become attracted
to you.

Because the parts of her brain
that control "stress" and
"arousal" are sworn enemies.

While "relaxation" and "arousal"
are literally only inches from
each other.

2) She Can't Have An Orgasm

This goes hand-in-hand with
above, but a little later on
in your relationship.

Unless she can chill out and
wind down, winding her back
up will be damn near impossible.

So giving her the "Big O"
is out of the question.

And since she mentally knows
both of the above...

3) She Can't Keep Talking
To You!

Which REALLY screws up your
shot at dating her, in the
long run.

HOW DO YOU RELAX - OR -
HOW DO YOU FAKE RELAXED
BODY LANGUAGE UNTIL YOU
CHILL OUT?

They both have the same
answer:

Try to get as much tension
out of your body as possible.

You can do this by smiling.

You can do this by thinking
positive thoughts.

And you can do this by stretching
every morning before you leave
the house.

However, the ONLY way to
completely relax is:

STAY OUT OF YOUR HEAD!

Stop thinking about what
COULD go wrong.

And stop trying to plan for
the future, while you two
are talking.

Because in order to relax,
you have to drop the tension
and live in the moment.

Be present.

It's insanely attractive to
women, even though it's not
the easiest thing to do.

Want help relaxing? Need to know
the secrets to looking calm and
confident around a beautiful
woman?

Check out The Attraction Code.

In this 200+ page book, I lay out
every secret and technique I know
to make women attracted to you.

(And in the past 10 years and
hundreds of girlfriends, I've
got LOTS)

So when you claim your copy of
The 'Code, you legally "steal"
my experience and use it to
shortcut your own rejections
and screw ups.

Check it out, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

And if you want more tips and tricks
TAILORED to talking with women,
I highly recommend watching
Conversation Cure.

In this 8 dvd set, you'll discover
everything you could ever need to
know about talking to a woman.

Including exact word-for-word ways
to pick her up, how to get out of
a jam (including getting caught
CHEATING!)

And even how to hypnotize a woman
to make her feel aroused for you
- then have the best orgasm of
her life!

Check it out here:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

***HERE'S WHAT TO DO, TODAY***

1) Relax, and stop pushing your
chest out. It SCARES her, not
turns her on

2) Hold steady eye contact. The
85/50 rule applies here

3) Keep your hands out of your
pockets and instead dangle them
at your sides

4) MOST IMPORTANTLY: Relax,
relax, relax. Let your tension
and stress just fade away by:

a) exercising more

b) stretching

and

c) getting more practice
meeting women