I get this question a TON:
(And you can email me your own:
askvin@vindicarlo.com)
****QUESTION****
"Hey Vin,
I loved The Attraction Code and
Conversation Cure. I use the
techniques EVERY DAY.
Thing is, I live in a small town
and I want to know the best places
to meet women.
Where would you recommend?
- Sean L."
>>>> Hey Sean,
Thanks for the kind words.
If you're looking to build a sturdy
foundation for your skills with women,
there's no better resource than
The Attraction Code:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
And if you don't know the 'right'
thing to say, or you mind goes blank
when you're talking to girls, then
Conversation CURE is perfect for you:
http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
And to answer your question, here's
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THE TOP 5 PLACES TO MEET WOMEN,
PERIOD.
*******************************
These are the places my friends, clients
and I have had the MOST success with
women.
By success, I mean phone numbers, instant
dates and eventually meeting these women
for night time dates and sex.
(In no particular order)
First up:
**AWESOME PLACE #1: BARS AND CLUBS**
Didn't think you could make it through
this list without the obvious, did you?
Because bars and clubs DO get a bad
wrap:
It's dark. Everyone's insecure and loaded
with alcohol. And the music is way too
loud to have a good conversation.
But the fact is: Women go to bars and
clubs to meet guys.
So girls you meet at a bar or club
are much, much more willing to go
home with you - Or give you her phone
number in a very short amount of time.
Here are 3 SPECIFIC TIPS FOR BARS & CLUBS:
1) Go alone, at least some of the time.
It may be scary at first, but it's much
easier to scout out a new bar or city
by yourself. In fact, your nerves may
be LESS because your buddies aren't
watching your every move.
2) Don't get her phone number at the END
of the conversation.
Find a logical place to get it near the
middle. Like if she says "I'd love to
go see that movie", you say "Cool, we
should totally go together. I'll give
you a call" and get her phone number.
3) Don't drink.
It sounds harder than it is.
The easiest way to stay sober and not
stand out is to just order water from
the bar. Or a soda.
So you always have a drink in your hand,
people won't ask you why you're not
drinking - But your wits are still
SHARP. And you'll remember her name.
(An added bonus)
Next place...
**AWESOME PLACE #2: THE GROCERY STORE**
Women have to go there. All women.
And they're usually in a hopeful or
social mood.
In fact, all my past girlfriends - surprisingly
- Said they see cute guys at the
grocery store and WISH YOU WOULD
APPROACH THEM.
So that girl squeezing her melons,
well, that may not just be dirty
in YOUR head. ;)
Also, it's during the day, which
is low-pressure and you have an
OBVIOUS time limit. This time
limit lets her relax, because
she knows you can't possibly
talk to her FOREVER.
(This is only until you show her
how amazing you are)
HERE'S MY TIP FOR GROCERY STORES:
* Head to Whole Foods, the healthy
grocery store.
There tend to be healthier, more
body-conscious women there. And
if you're looking for a college
aged or 30-yr old professional
woman... Whole Foods is a gold
mine.
DON'T talk about corny stuff,
or make it TOO blatant.
Just walk up and start a conversation.
If she's in the food aisle, ask
her about recipes, or just start
chatting about the groceries
she's looking at.
Make it very low-key, and get
her phone number after a few
minutes.
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I break down the system I used
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numbers from women around the world,
in my quest for the perfect text
message.
Did I find it? You bet your ass
I did. And I reveal it, right
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>>>
**AWESOME PLACE #3: THE BOOK STORE*
It's cliche, but it's true:
Smart girls are sometimes hot.
And the hot smart girls read
books.
Therefore the hot, smart girls
who read books hang out in
book stores. At least some
of the time.
And if you head there on a weekend
afternoon - You can bet your behind
on at least one or two cuties
roaming the shelves.
Best of all - If you stick to
sections you're actually interested
in - Starting a conversation is
EASY.
Just walk up to her and make a
casual comment like:
"I loved that book. Read anything
by him yet?"
or
"Oh wow, that looks interesting"
or even
"I saw you looking at that book,
and I thought you HAVE to be either
my dream girl or a psychic stalker"
(That last one's a joke, btw)
See? SUPER-easy.
HERE'S ANOTHER AWESOME TIP FOR
THE BOOK STORE:
Take your time!
Sounds easy, but it's SUPER-
valuable.
If you don't see a girl who strikes
your fancy (or you've already got
her phone number), grab a book
you like and sit in one of the
chairs.
Take an hour, and read.
Relax.
Have fun.
And then you will have a fresh new
set of women to talk to. And you
won't get bored of waiting.
Sneaky. And awesome ;)
**AWESOME PLACE #4: THE COFFEE SHOP**
PROMISE the next one isn't a cliche.
It's actually SUPER-sneaky.
But Starbucks aka The Coffee Shop is
a KILLER place to meet women.
1) The women who work there are usually
hired because they're good looking
2) Good looking (and successful) women
spend lots of time at Starbucks. They
drink coffee, yes, and they also read,
study or just chat with their friends.
3) She WANTS to be approached at a
Starbucks.
She actually goes there to meet guys.
In fact, one of the girls I'm currently
dating says her and her friends call
Starbucks "the new bar." Because they
almost always go there with either
the HOPES of meeting a new guy, or
meet a new guy there who's COOL.
So you don't have any "creepy, drunk guy"
stereotypes working against you. Only
"cool coffee shop guy" stereotype
working FOR you.
The best ways to talk to a woman in Starbucks
varies, whether you're in line or
sitting down.
IF YOU'RE IN LINE: Just turn around
and start talking to her.
If she's in front of you, tap her on
the shoulder and say:
"I saw you standing there, and you
(THING YOU NOTICED ABOUT HER)"
Some of my favorites are "you seemed
so calm and collected" or "you've got
an awesome sense of style. I really
dig it"
This always sounds like a spontaneous
compliment. Not like a pickup line.
And she will be genuinely complimented,
because you aren't talking about her
body. (which turns her off)
AND IF YOU'RE / SHE'S SITTING DOWN:
Notice something about what she's
doing.
Talk about the book she's reading.
Or maybe ask her what she's working
on.
And if all else fails, just steal the
technique I taught you, above.
Remember, here's the structure:
"I saw you (DOING WHAT SHE'S DOING)
and I noticed (WHAT YOU NOTICED ABOUT
HER)"
It's very simple, and she will love
it 99% of the time.
HERE'S ANOTHER HINT FOR THE COFFEE
SHOP:
DO get the food.
It's usually awesome.
The muffins and scones will one day
make me CRAZY fat... But I love them,
nonetheless.
... What? A hint on how to meet
women? Well, ok, I guess:
If she's working behind the counter,
and there are other customers around,
it's better not to get her phone
number right away.
She will only be embarrassed, and you'll
come across creepy.
Instead, start building a relationship
with her. Get her name, ask her about
her day. And play the long game.
Eventually you two will become pretty
good friends, and when it quiets
down, you can ask her what she's
doing after work.
Suggest an activity you KNOW she'll
like, based on your other conversations
and then get her phone number.
Easy as pie.
Remember - NoFlakes! is great for all
your phone number needs:
http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live
**AWESOME PLACE #5: THE SUBWAY**
Now if you live in the suburbs or
country, this one may not work for
you.
But the SUBWAY was voted #1 MOST
ROMANTIC PLACE TO MEET A GUY, by
a top woman's magazine.
(I can't remember the name right
now, but I'll tell you once I
remember)
It's probably because of the
spontaneous meeting.
Or because if you had waited
one more second, she would be
GONE - Forever.
But whatever the case, women LOVE
meeting guys in the subway.
And if you want to be a romantic,
this is the way to go.
HERE'S AN AWESOME SUBWAY TIP:
Just start a conversation.
And if you get her phone number,
keep it going.
Then find out what stop she's getting
off, and then go with her.
Ask her what's cool to do around
there, and try for an "instant
date."
That way - You've already got your
first date out of the way, by the
time you call her, later on.
Now, all of these tips I learned through
YEARS of hard-work, practice and rejection.
(Sadly, you can't avoid it if you
practice and learn from your
mistakes)
But thankfully, I developed a way for
YOU to AVOID the same stinging rejection
I felt every time I had to learn a life
lesson for myself.
I packaged together my best general
techniques into a book I call The Attraction
Code. And if you read it once, I promise
it will open your eyes to a whole new world
with women. A world full of self-confidence
and CHOICE. And I back this promise with
my own money. Check it out here:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
And if you want to know how to touch a woman
to turn her on... or even... How to turn her
on using only your WORDS, then I highly
recommend the S-Cubed program. In it, I show
you techniques to make her practically
ADDICTED to you, sexually. And again,
I back this promise with my own cold
hard cash. Read more below:
http://www.GoCubeYourself.com
So check those out.
Scout those 5 places.
Meet some amazing women.
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