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I still remember when bars and clubs
were intimidating, scary places.

The noise and the lights made everyone
seem either super-attractive...

... Or in the case of other guys,
huge and intimidating.

Everyone seemed to be having a good
time, except for me.

And the alcohol didn't make it easier,
either.

After years of going out, I finally
started approaching women in bars
and clubs.

Sometimes the music was too loud for
her to hear me... Sometimes she'd
even IGNORE me completely.

I had my hopes and confidence in myself
SHATTERED in a matter of minutes.

And I never wanted to go back to these
places to meet women, ever again.

Now, I took the easy route:

I started approaching women during
the day until my skills and success
with women was so overwhelming,
meeting her at night didn't
seem so scary.

Until my self-confidence was bullet-proof
and impossible to crack.

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HERE'S A SHORT-CUT TO QUICK
AND EASY SUCCESS WITH WOMEN
IN BARS AND NIGHTCLUBS, TONIGHT:
********************************

Because I understand that avoiding
bars and clubs simply isn't an option
sometimes.

I mean, who wants to turn down your
buddies for drinks... Just because
women make you nervous?

So here's how to approach a woman
in bars and nightclubs:

You have to remember, she's been
hit on for the last three, four
or even more hours.

Mostly by drunken idiots, who
oggle her breasts, and make
lewd, sexual remarks to try
to pick her up.

(Hey baby, what's your number?
Want to come back to my place?
God your so hot, I'm going to
do you SO good... Etc)

So the key is to get around her
automatic 'assumption' of YOU
as one of these guys.

You may have heard of stories
or asking her opinion about
something.

Personally, I don't like these
because I feel you're masking
your real intentions just a
little too much.

Unless you really DID want to
know who lies more, men or
women... In that case, go
for it.

Personally, I suggest walking up
to her and talking about your
environment, or surroundings.

Maybe even something she has on,
or the way she holds herself.

For instance, if you're at a
sports bar and a cute girl has
your fav. team's colors painted
on her face, walk up to her and
say:

"Wow. You're looking festive"

Which is kind of funny, or maybe
even...

"Love the face paint. You're
totally kicking my ass for the
'best TEAMNAME fan' award today"

Both of these are light, and
they give her a chance to start
talking to you, about a topic
that's direct, but non-sexual.

From there, just start threading
and continue the conversation.

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>>>

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HERE'S WHY THAT APPROACH
IS THE BEST:
************************

A) You're not masking the fact that
you're talking to her because you
want to talk to her.

You're not pretending you just want
to tell her a story or ask her
opinion, and then you'll go
away.

So if she wants to chat, she can
chat.

And if she's feeling down in the dumps,
or 'closed off' that night, she can
let you know quickly, without you
wasting your time.

B) You're not masking how you FEEL
about her.

You're a guy. You like how she looks,
or what she's doing.

So, obviously, there's the potential for
a sexual spark there.

And it won't feel "forced" or from left
field when you go for her phone number,
later on in the night.

C) You're talking about something personal,
to either you or her.

And it doesn't have to be "therapist's couch"
personal, either.

You're talking about her opinions of
this place / music / shirt.

You're talking about how you and her
see the world.

And you're talking about something related
to YOU or HER... Instead of some story
about your friend...

... or, worse yet...

... Stumbling through an awkward pause,
where you're stuck in your head,
only WONDERING what she's thinking.

(ProTip: The most powerful question you
can ask a girl is, "What do you think
about XXX?" And then shut up and listen.

Listen to her answer, and talk about
something she mentioned in it.

That's the core basics of 'threading')

So use this technique TONIGHT to
meet that beautiful girl in your
local pub or nightclub.

And remember - Beautiful girls respond
to the SAME STUFF 'average' looking girls
do.

The ONLY difference is how you feel about
YOURSELF.

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self-confidence, check out The Red Pill
Program:

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AND the techniques to put it to work
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I wish you the best of luck, and
CONFIDENCE in meeting the women
you want and deserve.

Your Friend,

- Vin

PS. Tongue tied?

Watch Conversation CURE:

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