Lots of guys focus on "when" and "how"
to meet women.

But they forget a CRUCIAL piece of the
picture:

WHERE do you meet women who aren't all
drunk, out of control and looking to
hook up with the good looking, rich
or just "high energy" party guys?

Because bars and clubs are HORRIBLE
places to meet women, if you're trying
to meet a girl you can settle down
with.

(Even if you want a girl with
girlfriend potential)

So in today's email, I'm going to
share with you my FAVORITE PLACE
to meet high quality women.

Girls who are smart, funny, intelligent
and beautiful. All wrapped in one.

And I'm going to teach you how to
how to talk to these girls so
she's into you, right away.

Because I hated playing the "flirting
game" TOO long, before I knew if she
was into me. And I bet YOU do, too.

>> For more information how to pick up
women, check out The Attraction Code.
It's got everything you need to meet
a girl, no matter WHERE you meet her,
and turn her into a loyal, loving
girlfriend:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

I got this topic idea today from
this email from a reader.

And if you want me to answer your
question, just send it to askvin@vindicarlo.com

I check that email once every day.

***QUESTION AND SUCCESS STORY FROM
A READER JUST LIKE YOU***

"Vin,

I started reading your books and
listening to your advice about
two years ago.

Since then, I went from a kind of
shy guy who's insecure around women
to sort of a confident player.

Not the obnoxious type, but more like
a smooth guy who's in control of his
attitude.

I catch girls checking me out when
I walk around and when I catch eyes
with a girl she usually looks back
at me a few times.

And I'm dating a girl I really like.
She treats me like a king, makes me
breakfast in the mornings and when
I have a stressful day she rubs my
neck and back.

She makes me feel amazing and relaxed.

So I'm not looking to leave her but
I kind of want to still "play the
field" you know? My girlfriend
is amazing but she's missing one
or two qualities in my perfect
girlfriend.

So I don't necessarily want to
cheat on her, I just want to make
sure I don't feel like I HAVE to
date her because I don't have
other options.

I was wondering where I should start
meeting women? I tried online and it
is pretty hit and miss. I use the
same things I say in person, but
the energy doesn't come across right
or something because I don't get
a lot of responses back.

Got any advice? I'd love to hear
your opinion.

And thanks a TON for all the great
newsletters in the past. You're
the real reason I'm a happy guy
today!

- Frank K., San Diego CA"

>> Hey Frank,

Glad the newsletters really helped
you out.

You hit on a key point: Guys who
USE these techniques GET RESULTS!

So congrats on that.

And you also had another great
point:

Girls DO act differently online.

In fact, guys who get good with
women in person actually DON'T
do well in online dating.

This is usually because guys who
are good in person rely a lot on
the dominance, body language and
non-verbal skills I teach guys
like you.

And when you go online, all you
have are a few words and a picture
for her to judge you by.

What ********!

That's why I prefer to meet women
in person, whenever possible.

YES - Sometimes it's scary

YES - I get shot down sometimes
(It's very rare now, but it
used to happen nearly every
other time)

and YES - You need to have
confidence in yourself to
make women attracted to
you.

Luckily, these are all easy things
to overcome!

You simply need to know WHAT to
say, and HOW to say it.

(If you want an extra self-confidence
boost, you could also check out
The Red Pill program, which is the
fastest way to confidence with
women:

http://wwww.GetTheRedPill.com)

I'm going to talk about what to say
and how to say it a little later on
in this email.

So first, let's talk about...

*****************************
VIN DICARLO'S FAVORITE PLACE
TO MEET WOMEN IN PERSON:
THE BOOKSTORE & COFFEE SHOP
****************************

Yup, I'm a cheater, I picked
two.

But it's cool, because there's
usually a coffee shop INSIDE
most bookstores.

So really, I only picked one:

A bookstore WITH a coffee shop.

(Take THAT, rules I made up!)

And here's why:

Bookstores and coffee shops both
have a relaxed environment.

What's even better, is they both
are places that ALLOW people to
talk and chat.

For instance:

You know you can't chat with
someone you met in a library.

And on the same note, talking to
a stranger at a supermarket or
grocery store is also kind of
creepy.

But if you're wandering around
a bookstore, or LOOKING at a
book, there's actually a decent
chance someone will start talking
to you about it.

Think about it:

You're in a section, surrounded
by books related to a common interest.

The people who are also there, SHARE
your common interest.

So meeting someone at a bookstore
is EASY and socially acceptable.

PLUS, it's low pressure for her
because she can just excuse herself
for quiet reading.

(Or maybe run behind a stack of books
so you can't find her lol)

Really though, most of the time,
she will be EXCITED to talk to you
because you two share a common
interest.

Or at least you should ASK her
about her interest in the books
she's looking at.

Because if she's passionate about
the topic, she will ramble on for
DAYS if you let her.

And the more a woman talks to you,
the more attractive you must be,
in her head.

You see, people look back on MEMORIES
to figure out what happened in REALITY.

For example:

You look back on the MEMORY of a friend
you knew in high school to decide
whether or not you want to talk
to him at the reunion.

And you look back at the MEMORY of
the last time you talked to a woman,
to decide whether or not you're
confident around girls.

So if this girl looks back at the
MEMORY of the first time she met
you, here's what she'll think:

"Wow. I talked to that guy for
twenty minutes! God, and I rambled
on and on like an idiot! I feel
a little embarrassed. Wow, am I
blushing? I must have really
liked this guy..."

Now, these won't be conscious
thoughts, of course.

In the same way the memories you
use to decide your favorite food
aren't conscious thoughts.

But they'll be running through her
head all the same.

So the more you make her talk,
the better.

Because the more of her TIME you
take up, the better.

Because a stronger MEMORY that
makes in her mind.

And the strength of that MEMORY
equals the strength of ATTRACTION
she feels for you.

Got the picture? Great. Let's move
on to WHAT YOU SHOULD SAY her.

Here's an easy rule:

Keep it simple, and situational.

This means keep it simple (easy)
and talk about something in the
environment around you two,
which I'll explain right now:

For instance, if you're in a
coffee shop, you can talk about:

1) What an interesting coffee she
ordered

2) How does she like the coffee
she ordered

3) How does she like the book she's
reading

4) What an amazing smell there is
here, because of the baked goods
and coffee

5) How cute she looks, and the
way she holds herself makes her
look very confident

... And the list goes on and on.

The formula for it is really
quite simple.

Just NOTICE something around you
two, then TALK about it.

And finally, ASK her thoughts
about it.

Because when you ASK her what
she thinks, you send two subtle
signals:

* You let her know you care
about her MIND, not just her
BODY

(Even if you don't, you need
to make her feel safe around
you)

* You seem like a guy who's
selfless and CONFIDENT.

A guy who can let others talk
and just LISTEN, because he's
confident enough in himself
to let go.

And letting people talk about
themselves is the highest form
of flattery.

Because she'll get to tell you
her amazing opinions, her insights
into human nature, and her likes /
dislikes / hopes and dreams.

And each one of these can turn
into further conversation, which
makes awkward pauses a thing of
the past, as well as never gives
your mind TIME to go 'blank'

This technique is something I like
to call "Threading", and you can
read all about it in the Conversation
CURE program:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

And once you get her phone number,
you should discover what to do from
there.

Including how to finally fix that
"online problem", using word for
word examples that are proven to
work.

You can find all of that, here:

http://www.NoFlakesDVD.com/live

***HERE'S WHAT TO DO, TODAY***

1) Go to your local bookstore
or coffee shop

2) Find a cute girl

3) Talk to her about something
around you

4) ASK her questions, and then
talk about the answers

5) Repeat step 4 until it's
time to get her phone number