I was walking down the street today,
and I eavesdropped in on a conversation
between a young couple.

They both looked like emotional wrecks,
and here's how the conversation went:

Her: "I dont know what it is. I'm just
not ATTRACTED to you anymore"

Him: "I'll do anything. I'll be a better
listener, I'll clean up after myself
in the house. Anything"

Her: "No, it's not that. Just... something
feels like it's missing"

... And that's all I heard.

Have you ever been in a situation like this?

God knows I have.

In fact, I was in a loveless marriage for
6 whole months that ended with a similar
conversation.

I would have done anything for her.

I wanted her in my life so bad.

And mostly, I was SCARED of losing her.
Scared of pushing her over the edge.
And scared of spending the rest of
my life alone.

So I begged.

I pleaded.

And I tried my best to EARN a second
chance.

The sad part is, I didn't realize at the
time, but...

THAT BEHAVIOR WAS DRIVING HER FURTHER
AND FURTHER AWAY!

You see, women need a strong man. A leader.

A guy who will take charge when the
time is right.

That's why she ends up with jerks and other
men who treat her poorly. Because they
push her EMOTIONAL buttons.

So when she's with a guy who will do ANYTHING
for her... And literally bend over backwards
just because she asked him to...

... She can't respect you. So she won't
be attracted to you.

In fact, there are a handful of rules you
MUST live by, to keep a woman attracted
to you in the long run.

And they all stem from one key rule:

CULTIVATE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE,
AND HER ATTRACTION WILL FOLLOW

>>> I talk about this in much more
detail in The Attraction Code. In
fact, the entire book was written
with two goals in mind: 1) Write the
best, most effective "How To" manual
for meeting women and getting dates,
and, 2) Write this manual to help men
feel more self-confidence around
women.

And when all's said and done, I firmly
believe it is the best book ever written
to help you meet the woman of your dreams
and feel like you earned her. To know
she RESPECTS you. See for yourself,
at the link below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>>>

**RULE NUMBER ONE: You MUST be the
DOMINANT force in the relationship.

This stems all the way back to our
tribal days, as humans.

Women would be attracted to the
"alpha male" and leader of the group.

He could choose ANY woman he wanted,
to be his wife. Even multiple women.

And if any other male had a problem
with it, he would beat them up -
or even kill them!

Thankfully, that's no longer the
case.

To be the DOMINANT male nowadays -
the guy all women want - You simply
have to be a LEADER, instead of
a FOLLOWER.

For example:

* If you meet her at a bar, be the
LEADER by approaching HER. Instead
of waiting for her to talk to you.

* If she meets your friends, simply
lead the conversation, by telling
some stories and speaking up for
yourself.

* And if you meet her at work or
school, just be relaxed in social
situations. Be calm and in control
of YOURSELF.

She will love you for it.

It's really quite simple. She falls
for a man who MAKES DECISIONS.

And she falls OUT of love with a man
who lets HER makes decisions for HIM.


**RULE #2: SHE has to work harder
than YOU.

This is similar to rule one, but
a little different.

You see, the guy I eavesdropped in on
had one main problem:

He wanted to please HER, without asking
himself how she was pleasing HIM.

In fact, because women are submissive by
nature - She WANTS to make you happy
and please YOU.

If you don't let her, it's like having
your star quarterback on the bench and
refusing to let him play.

She feels frustrated. Stifled. And like
you don't appreciate how much she cares
about you.

So the next time you feel a relationship
slipping away, try this:

* Have her pick up little gifts for you,
while she's out at the store

* Ask for back and neck rubs, when you
come home from work or school

* Have her take you out to dinner, and
offer to make it up to her later, in
bed ;)

* And generally, get her to make YOUR
life better - Not harder

Because when she feels like she's a
valuable, contributing part of your
life, she's going to be MUCH happier
than if she could just walk all
over you.

NOTE: This means sometimes sticking up
for yourself and saying "No"

Don't want to go to the movies tonight?
Say "No"

Don't want to see the art show? Say "No"

And say "No", then follow up with your
preference ANY time she suggests something
you don't want to do.

This doesn't mean you should ALWAYS have
YOUR way - But it does mean you shouldn't
ever let her take control without at
least knowing your opinion.


**RULE #3: Have some gosh-darn fun.
(Sex included)

The ****** part about relationships is
that they usually start out AMAZING.

You're both in lust over this new
person in your life.

You're excited to see her. She's
excited to see you.

You call each other every night. Maybe
even come up with gooey Nicknames for
each other.

(Or am I just weird like that?)

Whatever the case, in a few months, it
can turn "stale", boring or even into
WORK.

No wonder the ship is sinking!

So here are some keys to keep your
relationship FUN, not DULL:

>>>But first, the ULTIMATE way to keep
your relationship fun and easy instead
of boring, hard or even painful is to
COMMUNICATE your wants and desires to
her effectively. Now, as guys, we can't
always "speak her language." But after
ten years of trying, I finally "broke
the code." And I put together a program
called Conversation CURE - Where you'll
learn not only what to SAY to a new
women, but also how to talk to your
girlfriend or lover to keep her
passion for you firing on all
cylinders. Check it out:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php
>>>>

* DON'T talk to - or see - Each other
every day.

In fact, keep it 3 times per week, tops.

Trust me, you'll thank me in the long
run.

Now, eventually, talking every night
is going to be "in the bag." But the
"don't see each other every day"
keeps the relationship fresh and
passionate for longer than most.

It works because when you see someone
every day, you start to take them for
granted.

Like they'll always be in your life.

And then you start to ignore them a
tiny bit. Why KEEP them, when you'll
always HAVE them, right?

So spread your hang-out time out.

* DON'T spend your dates hanging
around your - or her - houses.

Movie nights have their place.
And it's usually for rough days
when you need to de-stress.

ANY other time you hang out should
have at least ONE activity where
you two get "out of the house."

Go to dinner.

Go for a walk in the park.

Whatever it is, get the hell OUT,
and do it together.

On one hand, this helps bond you two,
and bring you closer together.

On the other - Her memories looking
back on your relationship will be
VARIED and ACTIVE, instead of boring
and couch-potato...ey...

(New word. Trademarked!)

So you're a "cool, active" couple
in her mind. Which equals fun.
Which equals lots and lots of...

* DO have a LOT more sex.

Now, if you're morally against having
sex before marriage, that's 100% fine.

Do what works for you.

For everyone else, I suggest practicing
safe and regular sex with your girlfriend,
and here's why:

A) It build LOADS of the bonding drug
oxytocin. So she will be closer to you
both physically AND emotionally.

B) It's just plain FUN.

It's exciting.

And if you keep your love life FREQUENT
and VARIED - She won't ever dream of
leaving the nest for another lover.

The keys to a great sex life are sexual
tension and sexual touch.

And I talk about both in my S-Cubed program.

Also in S-Cubed, I teach you how to make
a woman - any woman, even if you just met
her - WORK for your sex. By buying you
expensive gifts, or taking you on
exotic vacations...

... You name it, I teach it. And when
you put both A) Her WORKING for you,
and B) HUGE sexual tension together...

... You get an AWESOME relationship.

Learn more about S-Cubed, here: