If you've ever been in a break-up
(even if you did the dumping)
you know how painful the next
few days are.

How you feel like something is
missing in your life.

Or even like you will never find
a girl like her, ever again.

And then there's the SEXUAL SHOCK!

Going from having at least SEMI
regular sex, to no action at all!

Worst of all - You feel like the
intimacy you had with your girlfriend
took TIME to master.

So walking up to NEW women feels
scary, confusing and you don't
have a *fresh* gameplan in your
mind.

Well, you could either focus on
picking yourself back up by your
bootstraps and moving on with
your life.... or...

... You could catch the "warning
signs" and stop her from leaving
you, before the breakup ever happens.

In this email, I'm going to teach you
WHY women leave, and I'm going to
arm you with tried and true techniques
to keep YOUR girl around for as
long as you want her.

(Even if she's thought of leaving
before - These tricks will keep
her in your pocket, and by your
side)

>> These techniques were developed
from over ten years of in-field
experience, and no other man alive
has dated more women - and gotten
out of more breakups - Than I have.

In fact, on a monthly basis, I have
girlfriends finding pictures, hairs
and even tampons another girl left
in my house.

(You would think by now I'd HIDE
THE EVIDENCE!)

The fact of the matter is: There's only
one person I know who's better at
getting out of breakups than I am.

And he teaches HIS techniques for
saving a relationship, as the very
last session in Conversation Cure.

Check it out:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

And now let's start the email!

Today's newsletter was inspired by
the question below, from a reader
just like yourself.

(If you'd like to email me a question,
simply send a note to askvin@vindicarlo.com.
I check it - personally - Once per
day)

****QUESTION FROM A READER****

"Hey Vin,

I've been dating this girl for about
3 months now, thanks to the techniques
I learned in The Attraction Code and
your newsletters.

The sex is great and she's an amazing
girl to talk to. I know you have multiple
girlfriends but that's really not my
style so I'm very happy.

The thing is she always talks about
other guys. Especially about how she
works with models and actors and
other comedians too.

So naturally I try my best not to
get jealous. I even tease her about
it or tell her "Wow, he's probably
cute you should totally date him"
and she giggles then comes running
at me.

But recently she's been a little
distant and I can't seem to connect
to her on an emotional level like
I did before.

I just got back from a business trip,
so I wonder if my ignoring her a
little bit while I was away caused
anything weird to happen.

Anyways, I was wondering if you think
she's thinking of leaving me. Like
are there any warning signs?

I'd like to be prepared and arm
myself just in case. Most importantly
though, I'd like to learn how to stop
her from leaving at all.

Because I really like her and not having
to work for sex or scrounge around at
some bar is a great feeling.

What do you think? And can you help
me out?

- Ed Little Rock, AR"

>> Hey Ed,

Thanks for the props about The Attraction
Code and the newsletters.

I spent months (well, really, ten years
of my life) on The Attraction Code.

And I spend at least two hours every day
writing an email to send to you.

So the fact you noticed the work really
makes a difference in my day :)

And on to your email:

You're doing a LOT of things right.

First, you're conscious of the fact
she's trying to make you jealous.

And you know you shouldn't buy into
it.

Second, you actually PUSH HER AWAY
a little bit, when she talks about
those guys.

This is GOOD.

Because women hate a needy guy who
always needs her to say "No Baby,
You're The Best Boyfriend I've
Ever Had"

Because then SHES wears the pants
in the relationship.

And she doesn't feel DOMINATED by
her man.

(If you're just tuning in - Dominated
doesn't mean degraded or used, it
simply means women like men who
have confidence and POWER in
their lives)

*******************************
WHEN YOUR WOMAN HAS THE POWER,
SHE'LL LOOK FOR ANOTHER MAN
WHO HAS MORE DOMINANCE THAN HER
*******************************

And that's the long and short of it.

It's the only reason a woman is
unhappy in a relationship, as long
as your sex life is good.

(And if your sex life could use some
pumping up, I highly recommend you
check out Dominant Sexual Power,
for obvious reasons:
http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp)

In fact, let's dive right in to
the top 3 reasons women LEAVE,
and what to do about each situation:

***********************************
THE TOP 3 REASONS WOMEN WILL LEAVE,
AND HOW TO PUT THEM ON ICE FOR GOOD
***********************************

**********************
REASON WOMEN LEAVE #1:
SHE HAS ALL THE POWER
**********************

You may be thinking to yourself
"Well duh"

And if you are - That's a good thing,
although you probably don't understand
how MUCH power you need to have.

Now if you're thinking "But some
women are just STRONG *******
WOMEN"...

... Well, then you start to see
the problem.

Because STRONG women need STRONGER
men.

In fact, I was talking with a girl
friend of mine the other day and
the topic got around to guys
who are trying to date her.

She told me about guys who showed
up with flowers...

She told me about guys who wrote
her romantic poetry and notes...

She told me about guys who paid
for EVERYTHING at dinner...

... And as she told me these
stories (which are ROMANTIC to
some women)...

... She made these guys out to
be LOSERS. Losers!

And these poor suckers probably
thought she was falling in love
with them!

Here's why she's so "cold":

Think about a boss you've had
where you thought you knew more
than him.

(And if you can't remember one,
make one up)

You probably thought:

"God, I can run the company better
than this guy"

or

"He's such a hack! I deserve that job!"

Or... and here's the real shocker...

"Why am I still here? I COULD DO
SO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!"

Because that's the sentence floating
through a strong girl's head when
she's matched up with a wussy guy
who doesn't "get" dominance.

She feels like she could do "better"

So if the sex isn't amazing, or if
he isn't loaded with money

(and lots of times she'll leave,
even if he's rich)

... She'll grow bored and make
a move right towards the door.

The way to stop her is to be the
stronger MAN in the relationship.

And you achieve that by being
DOMINANT and MAKING DECISIONS
and TAKING ACTION when you two
have different opinions.

You can learn all about dominance
in The Attraction Code:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

In fact, it's the only book out
there that talks about dominance
and how it relates to meeting,
sleeping with and DATING women.

But the real take-away from this
section is that YOU NEED TO BE
THE DOMINANT GUY TO MAKE A
WOMAN RESPECT YOU.

Speaking of respect...

***********************
REASON WOMEN LEAVE #2:
SHE DOESN'T RESPECT YOU
***********************

This is just a little different
than her having power over you.

And it's WORSE.

Because when she doesn't respect
you, she not only has the power and
the control...

... She also uses it to make your
life miserable.

I'm sure you've seen "pocket husbands"
or guys who let their women walk all
over them.

In fact, last night, I was eating
dinner with my girlfriend.

And at the table across from us, there
was this young couple fighting.

Well, they weren't fighting.

SHE was fighting.

SHE was calling him names, and criticizing
his family.

SHE was even saying - OUT LOUD -
How lowsy their sex life is.

And HE... Well...


... He just sat there and took it.

One of two things are going to
happen to that couple.

They're either:

A) Going to break up in no time
flat

or

B) She's going to get addicted to
that power, and hold it over his
head forever.

No matter WHICH ONE happens, HIS
life is going to be miserable.

My marriage was like that, when
I was only 20 years old.

It lasted 6 months and it was a
******* nightmare.

Fights every night and sex once
per month. If I was lucky.

I've decided to never again
stay in an abusive relationship.

I've learned the techniques to
keep her from holding her *****
over my head as a "reward" for
good behavior.

And I've dedicated my life to
healthy, sexual and fulfilling
relationships with women I truly
love and find fascinating.

How about you?

If you have - Good for you!

Welcome to the world of the enlightened
man, who understands women want dominant
men with status as much as we lust over
a girl with a great set of breasts.

If you haven't - Here's your
wake up call.

And here's a little tip to help you:

If you ever hear your girlfriend,
girl FRIEND or even a girl you just
met say something you wouldn't
tolerate from a little brother
or sister...

(make one up, if you don't already
have one. And remember - You don't
take **** from your little brother ;)

... Then either:

1) Walk away.

Leave her standing there, by herself.

Because she hasn't earned the right
to be in you presence.

It's the truth.

You NEED to respect yourself.

And the people around you who
don't respect you shouldn't be
allowed to associate with you
at ALL.

or

2) Tell her to shut up.

Tell her what she just said is
EXTREMELY disrespectful.

And tell her that if she says
anything like that ever again,
you're going to pull the car
over and kick her out on the
side of the road.

(Make your threat fit the
situation)

And be serious about it.

Women who treat you like
**** shouldn't be part of
your life.

You want a beautiful, funny,
intelligent girl with a GREAT
personality.

Best of all - She's out there,
waiting.

So don't waste your time with
the losers.

Give her one chance to "shape up"
then kick her out on her ass.

Or try to "shape" her into a
good girl.

This is extremely tough.

And it's very advanced.

But if you know a few ways to talk
to women - specific ways, grounded
in behavior modification psychology -
You can turn nearly any woman into
your "perfect girl", without too
much work.

I talk about shaping in the
S-Cubed System. You can find
out more, here:

http://www.GoCubeYourself.com

But if she doesn't have the power...

And if she respects you, or at least
tries...

Then there's only ONE reason
a woman would ever leave you:

***********************
REASON WOMEN LEAVE #3:
THE SEX ISN'T GOOD
**********************

AND:

She's not telling you that it
sucks.

That last sentence is the worst
part about it.

Because unless she flat out tells
you your love life needs work,
it's nearly impossible to tell
if she's faking it.

(HINT: The REAL good girls can
even fake physical 'symptoms'
of an orgasm)

And if she feels sexually frustrated,
it may not cause her to leave you...

... But you can bet she'll find
another guy to satisfy her,
sexually!

So don't take that chance!

If you see this warning sign,
work on your sex skills, pronto:

****THE AMOUNT OF SEX YOUR TWO
HAVE GOES DOWN, DRAMATICALLY****

Because think about it:

She hasn't suddenly started
NOT liking sex.

And you haven't been fulfilling
her sexual needs.

So she's probably at least LOOKING
to get "Filled" somewhere else.

Following me so far? Great.

So what do you do, to keep your
sex life active? Simple:

MORE DOMINANCE.

MORE VARIETY.

AND A COMBINATION OF BOTH OF
THE ABOVE.

Try new places and positions.

Tell her what you want, instead
of asking her.

And be the leader in the bedroom,
just like you are in your dating
life.

She'll love it.

Because 90% of the female orgasm
starts in her MIND.

And DOMINANCE makes her MENTALLY
READY to have sex with you.

So when you're DOMINANT to her,
DURING sex, her orgasm is pretty
much an afterthought.

And the 'technique' as far as
inches and angles becomes
second nature to YOUR body.

So take over, and make her like
it.

If you want tips and exact
WAYS to make your sex life
exciting.... Well... Your
email would never in a
million years let me type
them out.

So check out the Dominant Sexual
Power program.

It's really inexpensive, and
there's no risk if it doesn't
work for you.

(It WILL, because it teaches you
how to use dominance, vision,
compliance and shaping to create
a sexual EXPERIENCE to any
woman you meet.

And it shows you how to unlock
you own sexual POWER, so women
you just met will know you're
something special)

Check it out, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

And if you want some advice
about being a dominant man
in general, I highly recommend
you check out The Attraction Code.

It's a must read for ANY man who
wants to get better with women.

And whether you have women treating
you like a FRIEND, or you want to
date hotter, higher QUALITY women,
it's got all the answers you're
looking for, packed right inside:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php

****HERE'S WHAT TO DO, TODAY****

1) Check to see if your girl's
ready to cheat by asking yourself
these three questions:

a) Do I have the DOMINANCE in our
relationship?

b) Does she RESPECT me?

c) Has our sex life been BETTER
THAN EVER?

And if you get even one no, try
using the following techniques:

2) Be more dominant in your relationship
by being the leader and making decisions.

3) Make her respect you by "walking away"
if she does something that puts you
down, in ANY way.

Women like that don't deserve to be
in you life.

4) Keep you sex life spicy by adding
DOMINANCE and VARIETY to your bedtime
antics.